[smcthatgirl2]

Omg I am so sick of being lonely all the time. Heaps of my friends have boyfriends or at least have someone who lies them, a guy friend etc and I have no one. I hear everyone's stories about what's going on with them and don't get me wrong I like hearing about it and stuff but its just sometimes it really gets me down. I mean I am at the age where by now most people have had a boyfriend and stuff and I never have and its really starting to get on my nerves. I'm not like completely ugly well at least I hope I'm not anyway but still , no one seems to notice me or be interested in me. My friends tell me that I'm cute and pretty , but I think they are just saying that. I am constantly overlooked by guys and nobody ever even likes me. God, I mean I can't be that unattractive can I? I know that I am young and that people say that you don't need a boyfriend blah blah but the truth of the matter is that everyone does. I am constantly upset about it and I always get really emotional about it. I can't be bothered to even go anywhere anymore, it's the holidays and I just want to stay at home. I just want to be happy and loved like everyone else. It would just be nice to not be so lonely and actuaally feel special for once in my life. I just don't no how much longer I can take this feeling

[ProteusIQ]

Hey, There

I am not an expert in love but I have being in three different relationship. :rolleyes: I know how it means by to be loved and to love. I think I can help you. Understand more, No matter what you are passing through, Love is a mysterious thing... you don't seek it but it seeks you. Don't find love,
Show love and it will find you. I will tell you more when I know you are reading what I write... I don't really want to paint the wind ,do I? Heheh Am simple guy, crazy, funny and mysterious.

[cal823]

We all are looking for love, but what we have to realise is, someone out there is looking for love, but, another thing we have to realise, is we aren't looking for love. We are looking, for the one person, who will complete us, and she/he will come. In time, until then, were just narrowing down. You can't hunt down or look that hard, it will come. Have faith.

[smcthatgirl2]

Yeah I get what you are saying. But it is just hard to be lonely and always overlooked

[cal823]

I know, I go through loneliness all the time. But I have faith.

[Dennis777]

Hello.

Sending you a great Big Hug...

Relax and he will find you... I know your saying, this is another person saying wait your young. Im not saying that I'm saying Relax... Guys can see it in you and they will pull back. Guys like a Girl that is sure about herself and enjoys her life. Im not saying drinking and drugs, I'm saying stand tall and flash that big sweet smile of yours. Let the world know how special you are.

The biggest problem Guys and Girls have is they become negative about life and lets face it who wants to be around a person that always looks at the bad in things.

The next thing is your looks... A Girl starts to look sexy from inside not the outside. That's not to say some guys don't just look on the outside but they are jerks and will hurt any Lady they are with. Real sexy is how you walk and how you hold yourself. Its your sweet sexy smile, it's the way your eyes light up when you see a person you like or want to get to know better. So worry less about the outside and work on the inside I know it will work for you.

Dennis777

[talaniman]

Just because you don't have a boyfriend like your friends do, doesn't mean stay home and mope, that does no good. Get a plan to stay busy having fun, and increase your chances of meeting new people, and being noticed by fun loving guys.

[templelane]

You cannot be truly loved until you love yourself.

Concentrate on liking yourself and improving yourself for yourself. When you are too busy living your life to the full that will be when someone will fall for you.

Don't look for someone to complete you complete yourself and then someone will compliment you.

Listen to Dennis he is 100% right

[rebel-2]

Be you, you don't needa guy just to make up some stories and have conversation. Listen to denis. Lol...

[cal823]

Loneliness is a common condition, id say loneliness, emptiness are the defining condition of people in the modern world.
But you got to remember, you live in a world full of wonderful people.
So there is no need for loneliness, and there's god too, you know how you can be alone in a crowd?
Well god can make it so you are not alone, even on a tropical deserted island where you are ravaged by polar bears and other dangers of mysterious tropical islands (LOST)

[smcthatgirl2]

Yeah I know what you all are saying is true, and I don't want a guy for conversation.
I know what to do, just not how. I can't just suddenley like myself

[talaniman]

A change in attitude to like yourself, can be slowly made by doing things you like to do, and looking at the things you do well, and trying to improve the things you don't do so well. Look in the mirror everyday, and smile at who you see, and tell them you love them. Be positive. If you're a happy person then people will want to share that with you.
Just curious what do you want a boyfriend for, if not conversation??

[ProteusIQ]

Sweet heart hold tight and you will find someone special,
And turn your face to those who are around you. Look inside you heart... ask what your heart
Really desire... I want you to know you are special and you are lovely and tell you what you are beautiful let know want to tell you otherwise. These are not only words...
Am sending you a poem I wrote I thought you might need.

L O V E

Love is most precious thing.
Love has a power to make and destroy.
To give and take away.
Love holds the power no Hero could defy…
Hercules, Achilles, Attila, Samson and Many super ordinary
Man could not conquer.
It’s like a Moss plant, It grows anywhere!
It’s an oasis in the desert, yet death in living.
Love can hold two together…Love can tear them apart!
You will never know its power nor Its tentacles.
Love is like a spider web, It catches anyone flying by!

L-et each moment teach you how to love and being loved.
O-ver everything you have ever image.
V-ision being clouded by your emotions.
E-ternity you will dwell in It.

You don’t find Love…Love finds you!

Have a nice time!

[bijan666]

I don't think problem is with you , it's just the way things are going these days. We are
Forgetting how to be together .Imagine how many thousands of lonely guys are out there
Right now feeling exactly like you are feeling . We are programmed to the bone with
Anxieties, worries, low self esteem and god knows what other mental baggages that is
Stopping us from socializing. Why bother making an effort when you can drown yourself
In music, video, games , computers and all other electronic garbage which is shoved down our throats . Three months ago a girl which I knew and was very much attracted to calls me out of the blue and asks me out, boy that was the happiest day of my life. Can you believe that we have not gone out yet ? Instead she sends me three e-mails a day . I am about to tell her that she can shove her e-mails and forget about her . So don't blame yourself
Sooner or later it will happen, I hope sooner .