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    fordtrucks Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 20, 2007, 09:35 AM
    Fordtrucks, very lonely
    OK... I was seeing this guy for about 2 months then one day he became strang , so I asked him what the prob was and all he could say was that it was too much too fast .WHAT THE HECK DOES THAT MEAN... him and I are still friends we visit and talk and make plans for snowmobiling and stuff... but the thing is that I have to allways make the anitial call he never calls me.. we have a lot of friends in the same circle... PLEASE HELP ME !
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    Feb 20, 2007, 03:23 PM
    Subjectively, too much too fast to me seems like he does not want to pursue a lasting relationship with you. If I said that to a girl it would mean that I do not think that there is a point of hanging around because I do not see you as a long-term mate. Just my opinion.
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    Feb 21, 2007, 03:20 PM
    Basically he feels like the reltionship is moving too fast too quickly and it all too much for him. This could cause him to feel uncomfortable. If he likes to hang out with you as mates then he obviously feels you rushed into a relationship, it might be hard for you but you need to back down a little, see if he gets in touch with you, be mates for a while before you take it more seriously. At the end of the day though if he doesn't make any effort to get in touch with you perhaps he just doesn't feel the same way, and therefore you need to move on. BUT ONE MAJOR BIT OF ADVICE... DON'T EVER CHASE A LAD, ITS NOT YOUR JOB TO DO THAT!

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