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pulpfiction · Jun 20, 2007, 07:43 AM

Thanks for your reply emopunk. I really appreciate it.

emopunk7 · Jun 20, 2007, 07:45 AM

If that picture of you is really you then go find someone closer where you can watch movies together and have great moments. Life goes on. You will be so much happier with someone else. Believe it!

talaniman · Jun 20, 2007, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by emopunk7

I understand. You do what you have to. I found it strange how quickly you decided though. It's ok! Good Luck!

I suspect pulpfiction has had these feelings for a long time now. :D

pulpfiction · Jun 20, 2007, 07:55 AM

Hehehe, for a long time I have fought with my feelings and the facts of my relationship, and yes the girl in my picture is ME.Thanks for your comments on it, and on my question.

pulpfiction · Jun 24, 2007, 07:41 PM

Hi everyone I have news for you all... today I chat to him (we've been chatting for 3 or 4 days, and he always says it's not the right time for us to be together, that we should be friends for 2 years until I finish university) and lastnite he was hearing me crying, because of so much pain, he was telling me he felt flattered for the love I show yet.. so I decided it was enough, but leave my msn on, so before he was going to go to bed, he asked me if I was going out(it was Saturday nite) with a friend, so I told him, that it wasn't his business anymore. (the same day on Saturday he told me, he was very jealous and he went to the jewerly where "my" ring is supposed to be gotten and he told me he tried to cancel it, but couldn't so it's still there). So after that I decided to actually go out, because I tried very hard, and with all my strength, but couldn't get what I wanted to hear, before saying night night, he told me it was me who he wanted, a future and a marriage. So he asked if I was goint to go out with my friend (who he has been always jealous off, because both are the same age, and he thinks my friend is secretly in love with me-but that's not truth). And because I was angry and frustrated, I told him that yes I will go out, he then asked : so I will watch you being with others? and I replied yes-cos to me is just company-not to sleep with another person) so he said OK and left.

Today he tried to contact me, but I didn't reply, I tried to be busy, but he tried again and again, so I replied: what for you want to know about my life, everything has been told between you and I, and u're the one who put me out of your life, so leave me alone and live your life as you chose it.
He then push, he wanted to know if I actually went out, so the chat became more and more intense, until he told me he dated today at 11:30 am with a girl named Dayna. That really hurt me even deeper than his words the past days. He said it was because of the things I told him, about being with another.
Of course I tried to be calm and cool about it,but couldn't so I said: Oh so you see how true is your love for me? That you phone to this girl, you picked her up, and actually drove her home and got her the coffee?. I know I killed with this: For your information I didn't go out lastnite, I wasn't with anybody I stayed home, but thanks for your honesty!

After that I know he felt guilty for his action, and got mad with himself, because he blamed me, he said: so I'm a bastard now, for your lies lastnite? And he said bye and left.

I was about to send him a really hurtful e-mail after that, but omehow I react and deleted the e-mail, I won't give him any reply. Maybe I'm an idiot for this, but I love him a lot, but at the same time I know he screwed up the things with me, and for that date I could never EVER come back with him.Cos he didn't think about my feelings,he picked that girl up,and that makes me think, he liked her since a long time, and why he had her phone? So he asked her for her phone along time ago!! So what should I do now? Show him indiference?

Thanks for your time to read this and give me advice!

pulpfiction · Jun 24, 2007, 07:50 PM

Someone, please help!!

huno · Jun 24, 2007, 08:35 PM

Pulp, you have to wait more than 9 minutes for someone to help you... :p

So, your question is what to do now? Well, what do you want? You say you can't ever go back to him... but is that for real? Somehow I don't think so.

Be cool for a moment. Make him wonder why you're not chasing after him.

pulpfiction · Jun 24, 2007, 08:55 PM

Hahaha huno, it seems u're the only one who is interested in this hahahaha, the thing is I'm very jealous , ONLY WITH HIM, I have this crazy thought around my head: HE SIT HER IN MY SEAT!! :@ I already told him once: if you go out with someone and then you want to come back together with me, it won't happen, iwon't kiss you, or be in the same seat you put another!! -cos to me that's like... putting another in MY place. I know it sounds crazy,but he knows how I am.

So for real is this: I'm REALLY hurt and offended by his damn date! the fact is I think how much fun he had with this girl I know nothing about, if she made him smile and laugh like I used to, the way he looked at her... and it makes me cry so much he did that to me, and told me so to hurt me, when he knows I have no chance to go out or flirt because when I'm not working, I'm home doing my homework for university! I HATE him, I know he's a bas... and I feel even more angry at my feelings because I still love him and want to know everything about him, I feel so stupid for this!

emopunk7 · Jun 25, 2007, 08:04 AM

He didn't think about your feelings because he went on a date? You didn't think about his feelings either when you said you were going out with a guy that he is very jealous of... So go figure... You two are playing games with each other... Just end it now! Good luck hun!

talaniman · Jun 25, 2007, 08:55 AM

Bet he was lying, trying to play tit-for-tat with you, so you can be as jealous as he is, and it worked pretty well, didn't it. Games, games and more games, is all this will be about, as the distance is making it hard to communicate, and you both show no signs of compromising on your positions. This isn't love, its manipulation and control by selfish people who ain't budging. Waste of time and energy.

pulpfiction · Jun 25, 2007, 06:20 PM

Well, I'm very sorry you all think that way about us, but after all this... I decided to leave the relationship, to retire and leave him alone, I tried and tried, but he kept saying he was confused, that he wasn't so in love with me anymore,even I told him to marry on October.

So I will close this topic as well, as there is no point in torturing myself with questions about why he does or feels or thinks the way he does.
I will be in peace and not search for any advice about all this stuff but thank you all the same.

Take care