[Religousman3]

In the beginning of September of this year, I was in my shop class when I revieved an E-mail from my friends ( now, more like Ex-friend) boyfriend saying to stop talking to her and he said that she said she thinks I'm a creep. I'm not like that, and all of a sudden I couldn't feel my legs, it was as if they turned into jellow. I thought she was still my friend so I e-mailed her on Myspace asking her why she didn't want to be friends with me anymore and how much it tore me up inside for so long. An that's not the worst part, she told me to stop talking to two other people in which they are twin sisters. And we are all the same age, well not now at least. We all acted like we were really good friends with each other. Then everything gave out. I thought long and hard about what I have done to scare them away. And I thought it might be the e-mails, but then I began to think that that wasn't the problem. Like I said we all acted like we were really good friends with each other so I didn't see the problem in doing it. I was a pest to them, and I tried so many times to apologize and to ask for forgiveness, but I always either never got an answer or I was threatened by my ex-friend that she would send her boyfriend at the beginning of my Freshman year to beat me up. She even wrote to me that she could never tell me why we can't be friends. And everyday since then I always pondered why... I miss being friends with the three of them so much! Any advice on how I could be friends with them again?

[misskobe]

In the beginning of September of this year, I was in my shop class when I revieved an E-mail from my friends ( now, more like Ex-friend) boyfriend saying to stop talking to her and he said that she said she thinks I'm a creep. I'm not like that, and all of a sudden I couldn't feel my legs, it was as if they turned into jellow. I thought she was still my friend so I e-mailed her on Myspace asking her why she didn't want to be friends with me anymore and how much it tore me up inside for so long. An thats not the worst part, she told me to stop talking to two other people in which they are twin sisters. And we are all the same age, well not now at least. We all acted like we were really good friends with each other. Then everything gave out. I thought long and hard about what I have done to scare them away. And I thought it might be the e-mails, but then I began to think that that wasn't the problem. Like I said we all acted like we were really good friends with each other so I didn't see the problem in doing it. I was a pest to them, and I tried so many times to apologize and to ask for forgiveness, but I always either never got an answer or I was threatened by my ex-friend that she would send her boyfriend at the beginning of my Freshman year to beat me up. She even wrote to me that she could never tell me why we can't be friends. And everyday since then I always pondered why.... I miss being friends with the three of them so much! Any advice on how I could be friends with them again?

LET it GO . Really . This really isn't about what you did wrong . Do you really think so ? What did you do so wrong that they are going to give you the shaft? I dotn think it has anything to do with you . They are what you call a click.. what one does ,they all must do . It is really sad actually but I would say let it go . You don't need to know why they did this or that , all you have to know is that they don't want to be your friend so they are not being friends to you . So they are not your friends so why should you care. You should not. Just move on and ignore them . I think what they did was cold and cruel and they don't deserve your friendship. I know when you are used to being around people and all of a sudden they reject you , it hurts but you have to move on... you know like that song by the All American Reject "move along " . That is what you have to do . You may want to take time for yourself to mourn the loss cause it is a loss but once you complete the mourning process you will be over it .

[Religousman3]

LET it GO . really . this really isnt about what you did wrong . do you really think so ? what did you do so wrong that they are going to give you the shaft? I dotn think it has anything to do with you . they are what you call a click .. what one does ,they all must do . it is really sad actually but i would say let it go . you dont need to know why they did this or that , all you have to know is that they dont want to be your friend so they are not being friends to you . so they are not your friends so why should you care. you should not. just move on and ignore them . I think what they did was cold and cruel and they dont deserve your friendship. i know when you are used to being around people and all of a sudden they reject you , it hurts but you have to move on ... you know like that song by the All American Reject "move along " . that is what you have to do . you may want to take time for yourself to mourn the loss cause it is a loss but once you complete the mourning process you will be over it .

Thanks. But it's not really a "Click" sort of thing. They said they don't pay attention to that sort of thing. Neither do I. But I will let go of it. Thank You.