[talaniman]

Well guy, talking can solve problems, and create a bond so people can grow together, but only time can tell if you two can deal with things so, sorry about the cancer, and I hope it was caught in time, but be aware that you being there for yet another crisis doesn't mean she won't revert back to her old behavior. Keep your head on straight, and give support without commiting your whole heart and soul, for now. I can't say she hasn't changed, but being nice because she needs you is not a coincidence. I suspect you've seen this behavior before.

[magicraft5]

Ahh, kind of. But I've already told her that we can't just straight back in that its going to take time, and I'm not going to run full speed back at her. I know I still need to stay a little back for a bit, just in case all this comes up again. Yea, I told her last night, that I can't be with someone who treats me just like a security blanket and wants to keep running back just because I'm here. She was like no, its not like that at all. I believe her, but still going to hold back a bit, you know.

[tr3sha]

I don't know what the hell to say about all of this. I thought I knew the answer, but what does anyone know? If I was girlfriend's with her, I would get her to spill and I'd tell you all her inner thoughts. Sadly though, I'm here and you're there.