Says she loves me and I'm the perfect one.then leaves?
I've been in a relationship for about 2 months now, it started slow and then it sped up. Where we both realized that we were both in love and loved being with each other. Then all of a sudden the weekdays are great... awesome, but the weekend comes and all of a sudden she says she doesn't want to be with me anymore. Then she will call me back in a day or two and apologize and we get back together... then the weekend comes and it starts all over. This has happened a few times, and its really starting to bug me. The last time it happened we didn't talk for about 3 or 4 days, then one day she calls me asking about one of my tattoos and asks if she can come see me when she gets back to our apartment complex (she lives in the same building by the way), so I say, "Of course." When she gets back here she has gotten a replica of one of my tattoos (a lot smaller) on her shoulder and says that she is so sorry and never meant to hurt me and she realized that she does love me with all of her heart. The next day, she comes up with something like, "that we don't have a lot in common, and that I've lost the spark for you." Even though, she has wrote letters and told me all the time that she whole-heartedly loves me and that I'm the perfect guy for her. Now she says she wants to be friends, but not in a relationship... which comes the day after she admits and says all these other things to me. Now in the past she has had some really really rough relationships (to the point of getting threatened and chased by one of her ex's with a knife) So I'm thinking that its just trust issues with guys and she can't make up her mind. She's admitted that a big part of her wants to let herself go and just be with me, but there is always that part that wants to pull her away and seems scared. We haven't talked in about a week or so, I miss her all the time... seems like every song I hear has at least a line or two in it about her. I want to be with her, and do love her... I'm pretty sure she thinks about me, and I'm doing my best to give her that space. Is there anything else I can do? Should I make an attempt to call her or leave a message? I just don't want her to run away because I didn't make a move. Anybody have any suggestions?