[christy9800]

I've been w/my boyfriend for a year in July. We live right across the street from each other. I have a 7 and 9 year old and he has a 7 year old. Our kids get along as if they are brothers and sister. Anyway, after a few months in our relationship, we would only stay the night with him when his son was with his mother. (They have joint custody). Then it got to the point that if he had his son on the weekends, we were starting to stay then. (We always stay there when he doesn't have his son). Now, ever since school has gotten out which will be 2 weeks this coming Tuesday, we have stayed the night EVERY single night. He ALWAYS wants us there. My kids love it, he loves it and I love it. I haven't stayed at my own house for almost 2 weeks. The only use I have for my house, is just doing my laundry there. About a month ago, I had told him that I was having it kind of hard financially and that we (me and kids) might have to move. He told me that he would hate to see me move, but I had to do what I had to do. I had brought up to him us moving in together and he said he didn't want to do that to his son. (He's talking about change). Then, I understood, but now I don't because we are there ALL THE TIME! Here lately, I've been feeling like I'm wasting my money and always getting myself in a financial bind to keep my house but I'm never there. I've been calling it 'expensive storage'. Should I bring it up again about us moving in together, or just leave it alone until he mentions it? He hates feeling pressured or pushed into doing something he doesn't want to do. He hasn't even said that he loves me yet. But from what I understand, (from friends and family) he moves very slow. He likes to take his time and not rush into anything. Which is fine with me! I'd rather him be slow than to rush. Anyway, should I mention the 'living with each other' again, or wait until he says anything to me? Or, is there any signs I could give him TO say something? PLEASE HELP!! :confused:

[emopunk7]

Why doesn't he go to your house prior to you moving? I see a lot of effort on your part. How is he helping? I would want to move in with someone also if I'm always at their house. Why pay more when we can join? If you already spoke about it and it was clear he didn't want to then I suggest just moving but don't stay at his house all the time so that he can see it's better to move in together. Maybe have him come to your house for a while. Change things a bit to see how he likes it. All you can do now is test the waters. Good luck!