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    NEXTELi930 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 17, 2007, 02:40 PM
    Confused- mines or not?
    My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And I Honestly Feel That I Am Not The Father. I Also Think She Is Cheating While She Is Pregnant. I'm Lost.
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    May 17, 2007, 02:56 PM
    This is sure an old story - as old as time actually. You slept with her but you are sure you are not the Father. Well, you will find out when that baby is born. You ask for the DNA to be done, wait for the results and go from there. So don't be lost, don't be s fool, and don't go around accusing her of stuff she might not have done at all. It will make you look like a donkey if it turns out you are wrong. If you are right, then go your way and do not look back. Next time, wear protection.
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    May 17, 2007, 04:11 PM
    Dear lost, until the baby is born there is nothing you can do, after the baby is born ask for a DNA test.

    Reminds of a lady a few years ago, she had to serve 5 guys to see who the father was ( two of the guys were brothers) their family dinners will never be the same.
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    Jun 10, 2007, 06:39 PM
    While at this moment you may be feeling angery or upset towards the pregnant girlfriend, try to focus on the child, even if you aren't the father, there is a growing child inside this lady and you need to try to help her to not be stressed or upset because that can hurt the baby. Now, unlike a lot of people in the world, I am assuming that you are sincere and not just being a flaky dad. But just ease up on the g/f and try to trust her unless she gives you face to face reason not to. And after the baby is born if you are still not sure she is telling the truth about you being the father, then get a DNA test.

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