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wcarper · May 7, 2007, 12:18 PM

I recently got a girl preganat, and from day one I told her that we should not have the baby. Mainly because I have other kids and she was married. She insisted on having the baby anyway and I want to give up my rights to the baby without having to pay child support or anything. She choose to have the baby, how do I chose to NOT have the baby ?

Emland · May 7, 2007, 12:31 PM

You could have chosen not to have a baby by not having sex with her. You play, you pay.

startover22 · May 7, 2007, 02:02 PM

Just because you have other children doesn't mean you cuoldn't have more. Did you ever think about that before you had sex with her. Why would you push someone to have an abortion because of your $elfishne$$?

Matt3046 · May 7, 2007, 02:07 PM

All you have to do is, build a time machine, and go back in time and convince yourself to use a condom. Let the baby be.

Sunshine2 · May 7, 2007, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by wcarper

I recently got a girl preganat, and from day one i told her that we should not have the baby. mainly because i have other kids and she was married. She insisted on having the baby anyway and i want to give up my rights to the baby without having to pay child support or anything. She choose to have the baby, how do i chose to NOT have the baby ?

Guess what buddy? You were a big enough boy to do the act, soooo, now it is time to be a man, yes, a man, and take on your responsibility. Even if you are to sorry to be a dad to the kid, you will have to pay child support for the next 18 years. You better get off your computer and go find a job, young man.

MissAdvice · May 7, 2007, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by wcarper

I recently got a girl preganat, and from day one i told her that we should not have the baby. mainly because i have other kids and she was married. She insisted on having the baby anyway and i want to give up my rights to the baby without having to pay child support or anything. She choose to have the baby, how do i chose to NOT have the baby ?

Giving up parental rights doesn't always mean you won't have to pay child support. Many abstince parents give up their rights by walking out of the child life forever and still are ordered to pay child support. I think that you should try to accept your responsibility for sexual intercourse. You have other kids, perhaps you care for them, how do you think the child will feel later in life ? Sometimes being a parent doesn't always mean providing money, there is also quality time. And if you are total against providing for this child, how do you know rather you will successful or not at doing so unless you try ?

Fr_Chuck · May 7, 2007, 09:02 PM

I am sorry but I will say this is one of the posts that has gotten me so angry, I wish I could say what I feel in this post but it would get deleted.

How could you be so selfish to be having unprotected sex and then just want to kill the baby because it is what you want to do.
Well it isn't your choice, it is the girls choice, you can give up all your rights to be a dad, you don't have to visit, you don't have to see the child,

And if your pay is already garnished to the max from your other kids, then you may even get out of paying child support, but if not, they can get child support from you

startover22 · May 7, 2007, 09:05 PM

Yes we all feel the same Fr_Chuck. Good thing it is the mothers choice in this case, huh? Wcarper, what did you think we would say?

NowWhat · May 7, 2007, 09:30 PM

You said she was married. Is she still? This child deserves a father that wants to be a father. It did not ask to be brought into this world. It should not have to pay the price for your ignorance about proper protection.

krystal1973 · May 7, 2007, 09:52 PM

Yes you can give up your parental rights... NO you cannot get out of your parental obligations.

THETRUTH123 · Oct 11, 2011, 06:47 PM

Sorry all these a$$%&%*# are jumping on you I understand how you feel. I all of this the woman is innocent and she can have sex with other men while she is married and I haven't heard anyone say a single thing about her. Women in America I'm sorry gold diggers find a guy with money get pregnant to get his money if he doesn't want to pay he is a dead beat the woman dident know that sex leads to pregnancy there for she deserves to get paid for the next 18yrs for her stupidity. Women do the same for guys that they like with no money just to keep him that is a pathetic person to bring a child into this world for your own motives not love but for control. Feel sorry for you but you will have to pay for the next 18yrs the system is terable sorry you are caught in it