[Sweetgirl111]

Me and this guy started texting around December. He told me he liked me. I told him he is not my type really and he said we hold a good conversations and have fun together and I'm his type. So we starting hanging out and texting lots, and we became dating. It lasted for about 1 month, before he broke it off. He said we we don't hold a conversation and I'm to loud for him. So we left it. So we became friends with benefits after that and that lasted a month and half.

Then he went all hot and cold on me. One day he was fine with me and we had a good laugh and some days he would just ignore me and be mean, this is all at work, as we don't see each other out work much. I was told he still likes me by our co workers. Then he started dating his ex girlfriend. So after a while we didn't really talk only at work, as he listens and watches me. And then we hung together with a couple of other mates.

That night my mates left and he stayed, don't know why. We talked to late in the night and had sex. So I'm confused what's going on. Does he still want me? Is his girlfriend a rebound, because we had sex while they are still together. But he never texted me the next day or days later. When we work together is just normal. I got drunk and I was all over him (embarrassing I know) but he went along with it. I don't know what's up with him.

Should I tell him I still like him or just leave it? I feel like he is giving me mixed signals. He was really into me at the beginning of all this way more than I was.

I know its all bad, the thing is I think cause I work with him and see him all the time I can't get over him. So what can I do? Also I just want to know if he still likes me or he just being a jerk and screwing around with me?

[smoothy]

The problem you are texting and not talking like people in a normal relationship would be doing.

You do know what friends with benefits is ? Right? Sex without any commitment or conditions.

THat's not a boyfriend or a girlfriend. Its being nothing more than a sex toy. If that what you both want... thats between the two of you... but I don't think that's what you want... you want more, he apparently is happy with a pump and dump when the urge arises.

My advice... don't drop your panties and spread your legs unless there is a lot more in it for you... at least a real and serious relationship.

You could end up with HPV, Herpes or even AIDS or a baby... and nothing more.

[talaniman]

He isn't sending mixed signals, just enjoying the free sex. That's what you are to him, and what's so confusing about that?

[Alty]

You're an easy lay. Sorry, but that's the truth. If he wants a bit of slap and tickle, some fun in the sheets, he knows you're game. He doesn't need to be in a relationship with you to get what he wants, and he doesn't have to be in love with you to have sex with you, and that's all you two really have.

You're sex, easy sex, always a yes. That's all you are. No more. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Not that he's not a jerk. He is. He's with his girlfriend, the woman he probably wants emotionally, but physically you're easier. If he's horny he knows he only has to call you and you're ready and willing.

How old are you? How old is he?

He's using you, and you're letting him. No need to be mad at him for allowing him to use you. Be mad at yourself and stop letting yourself be used.

[Homegirl 50]

He dumped you, told you I wasn't working and then you just let him have sex with you when he wants. He does not even have to talk to you.
He is doing what you have allowed him to do.
He has a girl friend, leave him alone and stop having sex with him.