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shanthal · Apr 13, 2007, 06:09 PM

Hi

I got married at an early age cause he got me pregnant. And we didn't actually live together cause he needs to work abroad for 2 years and when he comeback I also go abroad so I think we just stay together for 1year at the most. And now we haven't seen each other for almost 2years again. The problem is I'm falling out of love and I want to go dating?? I want to try how do other man kissed. (my hubby is my first and became the last).. what should I do? is it OK if I go out dating? please help.. I need advice.. I'm 25 and my son just turn 6years old..
Thanks a lot:confused:

missk · Apr 14, 2007, 07:10 AM

I think you should date-just don't bring them home when your son is there.

shanthal · Apr 14, 2007, 11:34 AM

(I think you should date-just don't bring them home when your son is there)

If I go dating then it means I also do kissing? my son and husband is far away from me and my husband told me that if I go out with onother guy he's going to hide my son from me..?

Thanks missk...

missk · Apr 15, 2007, 08:40 AM

Okay forget what I said. DON'T DATE. I missed the part about you being married. So who has custody of your son?

JoeCanada76 · Apr 15, 2007, 09:18 AM

If he is never around. You are never together. What is the sense of being together. If your not happy I think it is time for a divorce. He can try to take your son away, but he has been an absent father. You can show he is never around. That he is both an absent father, and absent father. Divorce him.

You then can try to get full custody. Once you are divorced then your free to see anybody.

Joe

shanthal · Apr 15, 2007, 10:08 PM

(Okay forget what I said. DON'T DATE. I missed the part about you being married. So who has custody of your son?)

Cause I'm here at abroad so my husband is the one who takes care of my son... whats on your mind?
Thanks missk..

shanthal · Apr 15, 2007, 10:13 PM

(If he is never around. You are never together. What is the sense of being together. If your not happy I think it is time for a divorce. He can try to take your son away, but he has been an absent father. You can show he is never around. That he is both an absent father, and absent father. Divorce him.

You then can try to get full custody. Once you are divorced then your free to see anybody.)

U don't get it... hes the one who takes care of my son now cause I'm here at canada to work.. hes jobless so I provide there financial needs.. and one more thing.. no divorce in our country... so I'm confused.. dont know what to do.. I can't tell him what I fell cause he's going to take away my son from me... what will I do? should I go dating?? I need advice..
Thanks joe

NowWhat · Apr 16, 2007, 07:32 AM

If he is jobless - can he and your son come to Canada? Maybe if you two spent some time together you could re-connect and you might not feel the need to date. 2 years is a long time to be away from your husband and your son.
I think anyone would be lonely and think about what you are thinking about.
If coming to Canada is not an option - can you get a job that is closer to your family?

shanthal · Apr 16, 2007, 11:12 AM

(If he is jobless - can he and your son come to Canada? Maybe if you two spent some time together you could re-connect and you might not feel the need to date. 2 years is a long time to be away from your husband and your son.
I think anyone would be lonely and think about what you are thinking about.
If coming to Canada is not an option - can you get a job that is closer to your family?)

You they can come to canada but what?? after 3 to 4 years?? I don't know... im trying my best to communicate with my husband but I really don't feel anything now... what really stops me to do something stupid is my son.. hope you're right that we still re-unite each other when the time comes.. I don't know.. ill just see what happen maybe..
Thanks very much...

BrokeninRI · Jun 24, 2008, 12:03 PM

I am in about the same boat, she has fallen out of love with me. Try to rekindle the love.
If you loved him, then you'd try to make it work. I am not married but was about to propose.

Best Wishes.

BrokeninRI · Jun 24, 2008, 03:36 PM

additionally if he is a good father he deserve more than just a chance.
I really believe if you are questioning dating, you are not comfortable with it. Don't do it. Put yourself in his shoes, how would you feel if you were him, what would you want your mate/partner/wife/husband to do?
Just my opinion. I value self respect and commitment a lot.
Again Best Wishes.

freakin_out5 · Aug 2, 2009, 10:09 AM

I got one word for you. DIVORCE.

dirty harry · Aug 3, 2009, 04:32 AM

I think the problem here is this that you want to go out with other men and you want to be with your family you are confuse you want to ride in the both boats and that is not possible.
I think you should talk to your husband seriously and tell him that you lost interest in him.or try to get together.these kind of things happened when you are to far away and you don't reconnect for a while.you know your options it is just admitting to them.
Take care