Well, I advise to give her space for now. No contact unless it's strictly to see the kids. YOU PULL BACK!! No needy-clingy - act like this is fine. NO desperation - no needy-clingy. Your life is fine without her - on the outside.
I have a feeling you're too soft around her? Be a man.
Don't give her anytime for now.
Also - improve yourself. Learn about woman. These are more tests you keep failing.
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