Were to start OK I'm 34 and she's 32 we have 2 kids boy9 and a girl 2 we been going out with each other for 10 years.we had up and downs like all pll get.but when we moved into are new home I thought things would get better but only ended up worse.. so I left with no other choice I ended up in a hostle but waiting for my flat to be sorted,any way after about 4 weeks I went to see her and we talked,she said she need time living on her own but still wanted me to see she and see how we got on living apart,after 4 months having some great times it seem to be going fine,then on one Sunday morning she told me she wanted to be on her own again,even though she told me the past 4 months I've been seeing her I did nothing wrong,she says she getting this block with me and thinks things will go back like before I moved out.I really do love her but I feel the time and effot I've put in the last 4 months was a waste.its like I tried for nothing.sooo lost atm what to do.