[catonsville]

When I saw J_9 had posted, I thought I was being taken to the "Wood Shed" again.

[talaniman]

I said tell the boss and if nothing is done you know to walk away. You found this job, you will find another, or more important, focus on doing well in school and graduating. That will bring your families trust as effectively as holding a job.

Doing the right thing restores the trust that doing the wrong thing destroyed for you. What you really need is a long track record of good behavior, and not just a job at your age.

You have made this job your salvation, and it's not, your behavior, and how you handle yourself and your time is. There is no quick easy fix, just hard work on yourself.

[Cat1864]

See the thing is he's me bosses son if I did something like that I'd probably lose me job. I been thinking heaps about it and I need to keep this job so I can show me dad I can change and make good choices. If I punch him or yell at him I'm going to lose me job I mean who would believe me anyway.

Think, this has nothing to do with your past or your family's trust. This lesson is about growing up to be a strong and confident female.

Sometimes it is difficult to remember that you are fifteen and learning lessons many of us learned a long time ago. You can stand up for yourself in the workplace. He may be the boss's son, but that makes your boss even more responsible for his behavior. You have made it clear you are not interested in his games. If he continues to try to do things you are uncomfortable with then you go to your employer and report his behavior. It puts his father on notice that his son is a problem. A problem he should take care of. If he doesn't then you quit and put the reasons in writing.

[catonsville]

I don't know what the Harassment Laws are in the UK but if it were in the US, "his butt would be in a sling" regardless of the fact it is the Boss's Son. Touching is a Big No-No.

[Thinkaboutit]

Sorry I'm not try to play the martyr or not listening. I just didn't want to mess this up me dad was happy I got a job so was I. If it wasn't at work I'd have no problem with sorting it out its not like I haven't had to deal with boys before especially when they drink, but its at work and he the bosses son so it makes it more difficult. But your all right, if he does it again will tell him to leave me alone and if that doesn't work I will tell his dad. I know having this job doesn't fix everything, I know I need to change how I act and think and I am trying to do that. I didn't do the things I did because I felt unloved or inadequent I'd just moved here a year ago I wanted to make friends fit anyway I know I messed up I'm changing.

[odinn7]

Say yes. Why not. If you go on one date with him nothung wrong will happen. And then you'll see

Really? Have you not been paying attention? There's 2 pages of crap here that point to reasons why she should not say yes.

[Cat1864]

JKim, I highly suggest reading the entire thread. The situation has changed since the original question was asked.

Think, I think you are doing well. Like I said, you are learning. The lessons are hard, but you do seem to be growing in the correct direction now.

[Alty]

Say yes. Why not. If you go on one date with him nothung wrong will happen. And then you'll see

JKim, this isn't a good way to start on this site. When there are 5 pages of posts it's very important to read all of them before you answer the question. Five pages of posts usually means that things have changed, or that the OP has added more information.

I gave you a reddie for your post, your very first one on this site, because your post was so blatantly wrong. Having said that, even if you just went by the first post and nothing else, how the heck would you know, and have the audacity to say, that nothing will go wrong? Obviously you're very wrong, because when she turned him down he sexually harassed her at work!

There's more to answering questions than just saying whatever you feel like saying at the time. You do have to read the posts, and you do have to think about what you say, it could affect someone's life.

[Thinkaboutit]

Thanks for all the advice he tried again today so I told him to stop touching me, he told me to be quiet I said no next time I'd yell it and tell his dad. He ended up going home so I think he gets it thanks heaps everyone. Thought I'd sound stupid yelling at him but should have just listened it worked :)

[tickle]

Thanks for all the advice he tried again today so I told him to stop touching me, he told me to be quiet I said no next time I'd yell it and tell his dad. He ended up going home so I think he gets it thanks heaps everyone. Thought I'd sound stupid yelling at him but should have just listened it worked :)

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WOW, good for you. You are standing your ground, like you should !

[Homegirl 50]

You did good. His dad needs to know though. This kid probably does this a lot.

[Thinkaboutit]

I don't think I need to tell his dad that would be kind of awkward. He already told me if I tell his dad he would just say I'm lying. He's at work today he's been OK so I don't see that I need to tell him, it would just cause problems that I don't really want.

[talaniman]

If push comes to shove and you get a repeat performance don't hesitate to tell his father. I wouldn't trust this kid to not put the bad mouth on you behind your back to his dad either.

[Thinkaboutit]

If he does it again ill just quit I'm so over all the drama and it wouldn't surprise me if he is either. I just wanted to work so I could do something with my free time that would keep me busy and I could learn some things, but not this, I guess I'm learning that the things I do will affect the way people will see me. But it's not like I need this job just don't want to let him ruin it for me either I actually like working here. Not going to let it bother me