[J_9]

Break up with her. She's too good for you.

[smoothy]

Imagine... she's probibly even cheating on him by masturbating too... gasp. Thats at least a thousand times worse.

[Cat1864]

I don't know. I want to break up with her but now that we are engaged there are damn families involved so isn't as easy. So I need space off and then maybe I'll think of this or I have told her I'll do the same thing then and lets see how she feels

Listen to how you sound. Five year olds sound more mature when they are fighting over a toy. If you do the 'same thing', it won't be. It will be a premeditated kiss because you want to kiss the male. It will be your choice. It wasn't hers.

Break up with her. Be honest with your family that you are not ready for marriage.

Same sex kissing just like opposite sex kissing, if it is meant as sexual or romantic in nature, could be considered cheating. But kissing isn't always sexual or romantic. Sometimes, as Wondergirl pointed out, parents and children kiss on the lips. As smoothy pointed out, some friends give each other a quick peck on the cheek or lips. It doesn't mean anything other than showing affection.

In this case, it doesn't even rise to a show of affection. It was playing around and had no meaning at all other than the bride-to-be was drunk. It is something to laugh off as an embarrassing story to tell about the friend.

Either let it go or let her go. Do not play immature games or try to hold on to someone you don't respect or trust.

[Wondergirl]

Listen to how you sound. Five year olds sound more mature when they are fighting over a toy.

I was thinking three year olds who can't stop asking the same question over and over again because they won't listen to and take in the answer.

Time to close this thread before we all have an apoplectic fit? I don't think we're accomplishing anything here.

[J_9]

Since there is no more to add to this thread, it is now closed.