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    black47 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 26, 2014, 10:22 AM
    Husband had a baby with another woman
    I'm trying to coup with this problem I have. My husband just came out and told me that a woman had a baby for hm. My love for him is so true that it's killing me inside. My heart feels like someone split it an half. The tears I cry is not helping the pain I feel. I'm wishing it was dream, but it's real. I put all m heart and soul into this man. Can anyone help me to figure out what to do. Crying for help!!
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    Mar 26, 2014, 10:27 AM
    Only you can make that decision because you have to live with it.

    Be prepared to have less money because he will have to pay child support as soon as she files for it.

    I hope he at least had a DNA test done to prove its his.....just because he slept with her doesn't mean it HAS to be his.....she migh have slept with others. She dd sleep with a married guy...who's to say he was the only one.
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    Mar 26, 2014, 02:07 PM
    You left out a very important piece of info. Did he father this baby before or during your marriage. If it was before, then I don't see a problem.
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