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Nourdib · Jan 16, 2014, 01:11 PM

But he didn't even ejeculate , how could I be pregnant ? And how will it feel if he breaks the hymen? Will it hurt? How long will the pain last? Will it hurt him too? Thanks for all your previous replies they have been helpful.

Cat1864 · Jan 16, 2014, 01:21 PM

Originally Posted by Nourdib

And how will it feel if he breaks the hymen? Will it hurt? How long will the pain last? Will it hurt him too? Thanks for all your previous replies they have been helpful.

You under 18, if you want that information, ask your mother. If you want to play adult games, be an adult and talk to your parents.

talaniman · Jan 16, 2014, 01:24 PM

Seeing as how you are doing all this behind your mom's back, then I guess you can't talk to her, as she is the one with ALL your answers, and the adults here would hate to tell a young girl what a mother should be telling her. The sad part is you and this fellow have no clue and are wrong for what you are doing, and the way you are doing it.

So far you have just dodged a bullet by luck alone, and still you keep doing the wrong thing, the wrong way, and you both will end up in big trouble. Plain and simple, stop doing the wrong thing and talk to your mom. Nobody here will help you do the wrong thing.

ScottGem · Jan 16, 2014, 01:29 PM

We are not going to help or condone underage sex. But I will tell you that ANY time there is penile insertion, even a little, there is the risk of pregnancy.

If what you are doing isn't wrong, then why do you have to sneak around to do it?

smoothy · Jan 16, 2014, 01:37 PM

Originally Posted by Nourdib

But he didn't even ejeculate , how could I be pregnant ? And how will it feel if he breaks the hymen? Will it hurt? How long will the pain last? Will it hurt him too? Thanks for all your previous replies they have been helpful.

Because he doesn't HAVE to ejaculate to make you pregnant. Ever have a garden hose the leaks? You would get your hands wet if you handle it even without turning it on... right? Same thing.

Just like it is possible for a woman to get pregnant during her period...you have to treat every day like the day it can happen....you have to treat him like at any moment its possible to get you pregnant. They are microcopic...you can't see them with your eye...thats why you can never assume its safe.

Nourdib · Feb 3, 2014, 01:35 PM

I have been having a lot of problems with my family lately. Im still young ( teenager) and My right eyelid keeps shaking/twitching whenever any problem happens. Why is that happening? What does it mean? Another thing, my father called my boyfriend's parents and told them to let their son back off or else he'd make a big problem.. My father hates him and there's no way I can talk him out of his decision. My boyfriend loves me and told me he's fine with a secret relationship. Im worried my dad finds out and make a huge problem for the guy and his fam.. He has no mercy... And I can't just leave him because I've lost my virginity to that person and I don't regret it because he's the one and I love him more than anything. I can't talk to my dad about this. What can I do? And again why is my eye twitching/shaking? Please help. Thank you.

Cat1864 · Feb 3, 2014, 01:55 PM

I have merged your threads to keep all information on this relationship in one place.

You are not going to like this but I applaud your father. He is very right to keep you from seeing the boy who wants to play at being a man.

The tic will probably go away if you stop lying to your parents and reduce the stress sneaking around adds to your life.

You have not shown that you are mature enough to have a relationship at this point in time. You are disobeying your father. You don't care about anything but your hormones and playing adult games when ever and where ever you can.

It is time to act like the mature person you seem to want to be. Obey your father. Stop playing adult games. Do not sneak around to see the boy. Get involved in activities where you can meet other people.

The world will not end if you can't see this boy. You will survive not being able to play games with him.

ScottGem · Feb 3, 2014, 02:28 PM

Your lucky he doesn't wind up in jail. And I'll bet he's happy with a secret relationship as long as you drop your pants for him.

Nourdib · Feb 4, 2014, 11:53 AM

I talked to him and told him that we cannot have a relationship because of my dad. He told me that he is okay with just being with me at school because he is attached to me and loves me. I honestly think he's just saying that so I don't get hurt because he took off my virginity. What do I do? Do I just agree with him or what? I love him but that isn't a relationship, its nt fair for him and its all because of me ifeel horrible

smoothy · Feb 4, 2014, 11:58 AM

Life isn't fair... sometimes you have to do something because it's the right thing to do... even if you don't want to.

This is nothing... it will be easy compared to many things you will have to do in the future.

ScottGem · Feb 4, 2014, 04:38 PM

Its not all because of you. I'm sure he was just as willing to drop his pants as you were. You both didn't think through your actions and now you are feeling the consequences.

Cat1864 · Feb 4, 2014, 05:09 PM

I think you need to walk away. You do not need things to go back to the way they were before with the visits to the school bathroom. That is definitely not a relationship.

Get involved in your own life. Pay attention to your studies, have fun with your friends, (if you aren't already) look into after-school activities where you can meet new people. Show your dad how responsible you can be. It might make a difference in how he views your future relationships.

Let the blame and negative feelings go. Leaving him alone is being fair to him and yourself. I know it doesn't feel that way at this moment, but it is. It will reduce your stress level too. Letting drama go usually does.

Good luck.