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    Nov 16, 2013, 06:43 AM
    My boyfriends family is against our relationship.
    I love my boyfriend and wanted to marry him but his family don't like me. I am habitual of him.. I talked to him 24 hours even sleep on phone.. He guides me.. but all of the sudden he stopped calling because of his family . I cannot concentrate on any thing even in studies... What to do.. how to come out of this.. Please help..
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    Nov 16, 2013, 07:09 AM
    You get over it the way millions of us do - keep busy and wait for time to do it's work.
    What are family and friends for, if not this? Tell them you need them to take you wherever they go, and tell them not to try to cheer you up, or even make you talk.
    Join study groups at school, and if there aren't any, create some.
    I know - you don't feel like doing anything. But you asked how to get over this, and that's how. You force yourself as best you can, and it gets a little easier each week.
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    Nov 16, 2013, 07:31 AM
    This sounds so unhealthy that it's no wonder his family is greatly concerned. This isn't even a healthy love if you cannot even focus on other important things in your life.

    You have described a dope fiend needing a fix, not a healthy loving relationship.
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    Nov 17, 2013, 08:14 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    This sounds so unhealthy that it's no wonder his family is greatly concerned. This isn't even a healthy love if you cannot even focus on other important things in your life.

    You have described a dope fiend needing a fix, not a healthy loving relationship.
    My problem is this I always want to talk to him... because without him I feel I cannot do any thing even walk...
    I want to come out of this...

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