[nk234567]

I'm 22 male, I'm in a complicated relationship with a girl of the same age from one year, we met through a common friend then we became friends but because of she was in a relationship I couldn't date her at that time, we came in touch again after almost a year on Facebook then we exchanged our phone numbers, then I dated her, everything was fine, she was also showing interest. I had fell in love with her since the day I had seen her for the first time. I had never dated any girl before because of my shy nature but this time, I was determined enough to get my love. I tried everything that I could do. I tried to be comfortable with her, I tried to touch her and come close to her in the second or third meeting,but I could feel that she is not touching me the way I do.we never even had a proper hug,but we were friendly enough I told her that I love her but she told me that she didn't want to be in any kind of relationship she told me we'll be together but didn't clarified about relationship, I was in need of love so desperately so I kept patience I thought I would change her mind some day. I knew she had some friends who were also interested in her and she was also showing interest in them which I had seen in Facebook's comments, she was also in touch with her ex. I had never asked any personal question. Once I saw something on Facebook that showed me that she was hiding something from me. Slowly slowly she started ignoring me,initially we were texting each other for 3-4 hours per day,it became 3-4 massages per day. Then I met her after a long time because of some reasons she had given to me. I met her again, it was the worst meeting she was resisting my touch but I think she met me at that time because of she had some kind of sympathy for me. I thought I still can try and I carried on meeting her and texting her, we started dating again after some months, her behaviour was same with me but she became little bit sweet after that worst meeting just a bit. I became addicted of her. I stopped expecting anything from and I just decided to love her unconditionally.our texting became little more interesting. I was pretty much satisfied but then I always started expecting something from her, I was getting hurtled but I didn't quit because I needed her influence. She was the only interest in my life.so I just carried on.last month I gave her a gift on her birthday, we had a really nice date on that day. We got little closer then before, but after one or two days her feelings almost disappeared, it was happened before that, too.she always gives some reasons for her ignorance and I have also realised that she is also little bit addicted of mine and maybe she also don't want to lose me. I've been hurtled so much during this. I've tried to stop talking with her for many times but I've always been failed, somehow I find some reasons to talk with her.yes I admit that she is better than me. I'm extremely confused about what I should do. Should I stay as a friend ? Should I keep trying to satisfy her expectations? Or should I say good bye to her forever?

[Oliver2011]

Say goodbye to that one for good. That means no communication. She is allowed to not be in to you, and clearly she isn't in to you.

Also learn from this. You can't be dependent on someone for your happiness. Your happiness comes from you. Learn about someone slowly before you commit your heart to that person.

[nk234567]

Thanks oliver thank you very much.