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    Sep 14, 2013, 08:22 PM
    4 date blues
    Hi
    I am 26 and depressed because I can't find a guy. Meanwhile, all my friends are getting married or are already married with kids. I'm becoming very upset and feeling like its not worth living.
    I have been on many dates within the past 2 years. I can't seem to make it past date 4. Guys ignore me and suddenly don't text or anything. It is extremely frustrating. I feel like doing something g wrong. But I am a very sweet person- not one of those sexy girls, but just generally ordinary and cool and down to earth. Guys show interest and then suddenly stop. I don't get it.

    Help!
    Date tips! Even though I've been on every site to figure this out.
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    Sep 14, 2013, 08:32 PM
    Do you start talking exclusiveness, commitment, engagement, or even marriage at date #4?
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    Sep 14, 2013, 08:54 PM
    Many of your married friends are probably envying you.
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    Sep 14, 2013, 08:57 PM
    I agree with N0help. I married at 21 and had a child at 24. I wish I would have waited to do both and meanwhile traveled and maybe gotten a master's degree and just had a lot of fun with no encumbrances.
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    Sep 14, 2013, 09:15 PM
    Maybe your desperation is showing during your dates. Relax and enjoy getting to know a person. Enjoy your young single life.
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