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    Sep 3, 2013, 03:38 PM
    Hooking up with men vs hooking up with women
    I can easily hook up with a guy.. but when it comes to a girl.. I seem to have it all jumbled up.. I get very shy first of all.. and don't have that much experience when it comes to women.. I want to learn how to hook up with a girl/woman.. any suggestions ?
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    Sep 3, 2013, 03:50 PM
    How old are you and what do you mean by hooking up?
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    Sep 3, 2013, 03:52 PM
    I'm 20.. you know getting a date with someone and later on seeing how it evolves
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    Sep 3, 2013, 03:54 PM
    How do you get to know guys? You met a young lady, you ask her out, get to know her.
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    Sep 3, 2013, 03:57 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    How do you get to know guys? You met a young lady, you ask her out, get to know her.
    I don't ask guys out either.. they just seem to come to me.. women on the other hand.. don't.. and it's been on my mind a lot lately.. since I'm only into women now..
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    Sep 3, 2013, 04:00 PM
    Well you need to start approaching women. Show some interest.
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    Sep 3, 2013, 04:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Well you need to start approaching women. Show some interest.
    .. but how.. I'm very shy.. I can barely look them in the eyes..
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    Sep 3, 2013, 04:03 PM
    When did you decide you were in to women?
    Maybe your not ready. Don't you have any female friends?
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    Sep 3, 2013, 04:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by c23 View Post
    .. but how .. I'm very shy .. I can barely look them in the eyes ..
    You either get over your shyness, or you wait to be approached. You may be waiting for a while, especially if someone else is too shy to approach you.

    It's never easy to approach someone. It can be very scary. But realize that even if you're rejected, it doesn't matter, you can move on, and you'll be less afraid to try.
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    Sep 4, 2013, 02:43 AM
    I agree, you will have to just wait for someone else to come to you, or you will get past your shyness and start talking to people.

    After my wife died, I was taught a lesson. Dating is a matter of numbers. I had to ask enough women out, ( many said no) to get and have a date. I wanted to date several people, for casual dating at that time. And it worked,
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    Sep 13, 2013, 04:40 PM
    Hooking up with an older woman
    If a girl comments that she's way older than you.. does that mean there's no chance ? And if there still is.. what are ways in which you can get her to ignore the age discrepancy
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    Sep 13, 2013, 04:48 PM
    How old is he? And her?

    What's the maturity discrepancy?
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    Sep 13, 2013, 05:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    How old is he? and her?

    What's the maturity discrepancy?
    .. Im 20 she's 38.. quite a difference.. but I'm quite mature for my age
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    Sep 13, 2013, 05:34 PM
    Mention that you like older women and see how she replies to that.
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    Sep 13, 2013, 05:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Mention that you like older women and see how she replies to that.
    .. she already commented on my age through a friend , saying I was too young..
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    Sep 13, 2013, 06:01 PM
    I was suggesting replying to the comment
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    Sep 13, 2013, 06:02 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by c23 View Post
    .. she already commented on my age through a friend , saying I was too young ..
    In which case that means no interest so forget it.
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    Sep 13, 2013, 06:03 PM
    Are you male or female?
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    Sep 13, 2013, 06:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Are you male or female?
    Female.. and so is she

    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I was suggesting replying to the comment
    I actually can't comment since when she told my friend I wasn't there.. and so it would be creepy and I would put my friend in a bad light
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    Sep 14, 2013, 11:30 AM
    Threads have been merged

    You want to be taken seriously? Don't send a friend to do your courting for you.
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