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Boyfriend cheating
My boyfriend cheated on me I mean he has a cheating problem and he had told me he can't with me he's only 22 and he doesn't want to be stuck with me forever he feels like he's missing out on life but yet he loves me very much I am confused how can you love someone and still have the need to go do u? He said I deserve better and he doesn't want to keep hurting me anymore but why do I feel like we still have a chance and could change him? Why can't I just move on I feel stuck I don't want to be with him anymore but it hurts me even more when he's actually gone.. I change so much I don't see life like I use to I am scared to end up with another guy that will cheat on me again and leave me they always do and I wonder why me what's wrong with me :( I always end up loving them and falling for them and they always end up backstabbing me in the back with someone else.. I feel so unhappy and unloved I am dying to close this chapter of my life and keep it moving but it has been hell for me. He's still around we more distant and we barely speak I've let him be do him and he sees how Hurt I am that he rather just stay away so he won't hurt me more :(
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He is playing with your heart strings. He likes having you in the background for when he doesn't have anything else going on in his life. Take his advice and find better. Tell him to hit the road and you move on with your life. You sound like you are desperate for love and looking in all the wrong places. Often the best thing is to get a life and build yourself esteem, then you will run into the right guy. As long as you are 'needing' a guy you are going to fall for any guy that comes along. GET PICKY and don't be so easy to catch.
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News flash! There is no rule that says you have to be in a relationship or even date. Like N0help said, get your own act together first and learn how to value yourself, so that men will value YOU and will respect you and will want to give you their best. Right now you are letting them walk all over you like a doormat.
Some counseling sessions will help you learn how to value yourself and not be so needy. |
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