[harta03]

I don't know how but I fell in love really bad wit this guy but he has a baby's mom that keeps going after him and provoking him every time he goes to see his son. I even seen eamil of her remembering the past and how sorry she is about the relationship the don't have.. she even have the nerves to wish him the best wit me. He had cheated with her in the past but we weren't seroius about our relationship and I let that slied but I think he gets very confuse when she deliverately keeps telling him she wants him. I know if he would not be interesting he would not even look at her but I seen her harassment and its hard.. this happens all the time; she calls, she emails, she constantly seeks him. Trust he is not inocent but at this point I just want to know if he still loves her or it has to do with her constant chase. I just want to know your opinion.

[cdad]

He needs to change the routine. If he can't then you need to leave. Otherwise your going to be dragged into the mess also. And unless she is contacting him about the child then she shouldn't be contacting him and he should tell her to stop. If he can't or won't. Leave him. If she continues then he needs a restraining order against her.

[verygrateful]

Because there is a baby involved and you are now involved in a relationship with the Dad, the ex will always be in your life. Your boyfriend needs to be there for the baby as the dad so therefore, the ex and your boyfriend will have to always talk about things as the baby grows up, graduates HS, graduates from college, gets married, etc. Probably will have to accept this relationship and the contact they will have as long as you are with him. Like the old saying goes, if you can't beat them, then join them for the baby's sake of course.