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jackieelovee_ · Jul 31, 2013, 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Naw, no pressure just prove you love him. The oldest line in the book for guys to get in a girls pants and the only proof he will accept.

How did that poster idea work out for you?

The poster idea he loved and it was even more cuter because it wasn't just me and one poster . It was me and like 8friensa and we all had posters

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 01:27 PM

Of course he liked the poster but you still got a long way to go.

talaniman · Jul 31, 2013, 02:01 PM

Originally Posted by jackieelovee_

The poster idea he loved and it was even more cuter because it wasnt just me and one poster . It was me and like 8friensa and we all had posters

So why is he asking for more? Ask him what else he wants and if he has no ideas, tell him to trust you and stop this silly childish game!!

It's demeaning and cruel.

imperfect_me · Jul 31, 2013, 02:40 PM

That's ridiculous if he trusts you than there's no need of him asking for your prove!
You should first get to know if he trusts you or not if he trusts you than why would he tell you to prove him! (he might be believing the chaeting thing your friend told him,that's why he's asking,maybe)

Homegirl 50 · Jul 31, 2013, 03:28 PM

I thinking he knows she didn't cheat.He's trying to get in her pants and have it be all her idea.

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 03:31 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I thinking he knows she didn't cheat.He's trying to get in her pants and have it be all her idea.

Yep It's a reverse psychological trick.

odinn7 · Jul 31, 2013, 05:35 PM

And she's eating it all up because no matter what we say, she is going to do what she wants anyway... or I mean... what he wants.

Wondergirl · Jul 31, 2013, 05:41 PM

Originally Posted by odinn7

And she's eating it all up because no matter what we say, she is going to do what she wants anyway....or I mean....what he wants.

... because she loves him and wants to keep him in her life because he is so worth it.

odinn7 · Jul 31, 2013, 05:42 PM

... he is the best thing that ever happened to her.

We've heard it all before, haven't we?

Wondergirl · Jul 31, 2013, 05:46 PM

Originally Posted by odinn7

...he is the best thing that ever happened to her.

We've heard it all before, haven't we?

Don't forget the part about his being so mature and so much fun to be with.

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 05:49 PM

2 babies later, 5 guys later,. and then number 6 they still don't see the full picture.

Wondergirl · Jul 31, 2013, 05:51 PM

Originally Posted by N0help4u

2 babies later, 5 guys later, ........and then number 6 they still don't see the full picture.

And then an appearance on the Steve Wilkos or Jerry Springer show.

N0help4u · Jul 31, 2013, 05:58 PM

And then DNA testing on MAURY's show

Wondergirl · Jul 31, 2013, 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by N0help4u

And then DNA testing on MAURY's show

And then she will check in with Dr Phil who will say, "What were you THINKing???" and "How was that working for you?"

I hope the OP comes to realize how the effects of this crush can escalate and knock her off her pins,

JudyKayTee · Jul 31, 2013, 06:57 PM

Cough - did OP answer how a 20 year old who knows about the relationship got custody of a 15 year old - and the other things I asked?

odinn7 · Jul 31, 2013, 07:03 PM

... no... why would she answer such a thing? This is about her trying to prove to her wonderful and caring boyfriend how much she loves him! She needs to prove it or she may lose him forever!

jackieelovee_ · Jul 31, 2013, 10:48 PM

Rude.

We talked about it and if I do get pregnant than he's staying . Even if I don't he's staying.

odinn7 · Jul 31, 2013, 11:19 PM

... well, unless he's in jail... or maybe changes his mind.

Right now you think you have all the answers. Everyone your age does. I did when I was your age. We get older and realize we didn't really know and we made many mistakes because of it. Some mistakes not too bad and others pretty bad. One day you will realize we were right but I hope it isn't because what you are going to do turns out to be one of the major mistakes in your life.

We might have been a little "rude" in trying to make a point to you but you don't seem to understand what we are trying to tell you... and that we do care and are trying to keep you from being used by him and regretting your decision. You think it will all work out... he said he will stay... do you really think he will tell you he is going to leave? Guys do this all the time... You don't want to hear it and you will do what you will do... I just hope it doesn't have negative consequences for you.

The thing that confuses me the most... you came here asking what to do and you were told honestly... but you didn't care to hear it... so why ask in the first place?

Good luck.

jackieelovee_ · Aug 1, 2013, 12:37 AM

Originally Posted by odinn7

...well, unless he's in jail....or maybe changes his mind.

Right now you think you have all the answers. Everyone your age does. I did when I was your age. We get older and realize we didn't really know and we made many mistakes because of it. Some mistakes not too bad and others pretty bad. One day you will realize we were right but I hope it isn't because what you are going to do turns out to be one of the major mistakes in your life.

We might have been a little "rude" in trying to make a point to you but you don't seem to understand what we are trying to tell you...and that we do care and are trying to keep you from being used by him and regretting your decision. You think it will all work out....he said he will stay....do you really think he will tell you he is going to leave? Guys do this all the time....You don't want to hear it and you will do what you will do....I just hope it doesn't have negative consequences for you.

The thing that confuses me the most....you came here asking what to do and you were told honestly....but you didn't care to hear it.....so why ask in the first place?

Good luck.

I came here for ADVICE. And yes I am taking in consideration everything you been telling me but why can't you for once listen to me ? Like OK , tell me not but you were young once and you had a person who made you feel above and beyond.. out of every one in my life he's the ONLY person who makes me feel like Im actually meant to be here and its hard when your barely 15 with one younger sister and no grandparents or anyone but mainly your cousin who her self is still enjoying being young . Losing him would suck ! When I fell in depression because my parents and older sister passed guess who was there for me , next to me the whole way ? Exactly. HIM . Not my cousin . But HIM.

imperfect_me · Aug 1, 2013, 02:53 AM

But if she thinks he's the right one for her,than why is she having doubts??
If she thinks she can trust him than she should do what her heart states..!