[topsy15]

I have known my boyfriend for over a year now but we have been officially dating for 6 month.everything in our relationship has been good. He loved me and I loved him. We are in a long distance relationship but we never allowed the distance to come between us. We communicated as much as possible. We have been planning a trip to Durban and I am suppose to leave this coming Monday. He had already booked everything.

The problem now is that everything seemingly being so well on Wednesday he called me and we had a great chat and afterwards we had a small chat on whatsapp.

Since Wednesday I haven't heard anything from him. I have sent over 10 messages on whatsapp, he is not responding and I have tried calling him but he is ignoring my calls.

I am so confused and hurt I don't know what to do.Its been 5 days without a word from him. Yesterday I asked my cousin to call him and he went on to say wrong number when he heard its my cousin.

Please help me guys am so torn apart. I don't even know if I should continue making preparations for the trip. He had said he wants me to introduce him to my parents before we leave for the trip. I had accepted and have already told my parents. I don't know whether I am reading too much into this. Is his ignoring me a way of saying its over. We are in an interracial relationship he is white and I am black.

Please help me to figure this out because I am so heartbroken.

[N0help4u]

Sounds like he got cold feet and chickened out and doesn't want to be man enough to face you. I'd cancel plans and if he shows up or calls tell him off.

[Homegirl 50]

Leave him alone. I would cancel the trip. Could be he was not being honest to begin with.