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    Apr 1, 2007, 07:35 AM
    Women in trouble
    I have been with my boyfriend for at least 13 years. He is a drinker and at times when he is drinking he tells me he is going to put me out .his drinking buddy is the landlord . For quite some time know the landlord will get in my face and tell me that she is going to put me out . That he has paid her hundreds of dollars to put me out.just recently she told me she was changing the locks. When I moved in she raised his rent,I also pay him 240.00 a month on the rent this was agreed upon a year after I moved in and got a job. She has been harassing me and telling me what she going to do .how can I get her off my back and stop threatening me until I leave. I would appreciate help from anybody. Thank you distressed
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    Apr 1, 2007, 07:40 AM
    MOVE! Away from the boyfriend, away from his drinking buddy/landlord, just as far as you can get and can afford. Even if it is a sleeping room, move.

    Stop allowing yourself to be harassed and degraded, threatened and browbeat by these two people. Get on with your life. As soon as possible, like tomorrow.
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    Apr 1, 2007, 07:45 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by scared12
    how can i get her off my back and stop threatening me until i leave?
    Hello scared:

    You've got several problems here. The easiest solution is for you to move - NOW.

    You're not going to change her. You're not going to change your boyfriend. You CAN change your residence, and I would - TOMORROW.

    Waiting until it's convenient for you ISN'T the answer. You want it to be all nice until then, and THAT ain't going to happen.

    excon

    PS> You're not on the lease. You have no obligation to stay.
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    Apr 1, 2007, 12:28 PM
    MOVE - unless you like the "drama" of your current situation, don't provide any more money to BF or LL and start looking for your own place.

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