I have been with my boyfriend for at least 13 years. He is a drinker and at times when he is drinking he tells me he is going to put me out .his drinking buddy is the landlord . For quite some time know the landlord will get in my face and tell me that she is going to put me out . That he has paid her hundreds of dollars to put me out.just recently she told me she was changing the locks. When I moved in she raised his rent,I also pay him 240.00 a month on the rent this was agreed upon a year after I moved in and got a job. She has been harassing me and telling me what she going to do .how can I get her off my back and stop threatening me until I leave. I would appreciate help from anybody. Thank you distressed

MOVE! Away from the boyfriend, away from his drinking buddy/landlord, just as far as you can get and can afford. Even if it is a sleeping room, move.

Stop allowing yourself to be harassed and degraded, threatened and browbeat by these two people. Get on with your life. As soon as possible, like tomorrow.

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Originally Posted by scared12

how can i get her off my back and stop threatening me until i leave?

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Hello scared:

You've got several problems here. The easiest solution is for you to move - NOW.

You're not going to change her. You're not going to change your boyfriend. You CAN change your residence, and I would - TOMORROW.

Waiting until it's convenient for you ISN'T the answer. You want it to be all nice until then, and THAT ain't going to happen.

excon

PS> You're not on the lease. You have no obligation to stay.

MOVE - unless you like the "drama" of your current situation, don't provide any more money to BF or LL and start looking for your own place.