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    jamesss Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 28, 2013, 07:31 AM
    Dealing with negativity
    My GF is so negative and I kind of hate that and probably don't want to go along with that
    I don't know if I should breakup with her but if so I want a way that won't hurt her... thanks
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    Jun 28, 2013, 07:32 AM
    Ok, good luck with that.
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    Jun 28, 2013, 07:37 AM
    There is no way to avoid hurting her. The trick is to be quick and clean and definite, and don't drag it out with hugs and kisses and promises of friendship. Then do No Contact.

    Can you do it that way?
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    Jun 28, 2013, 08:59 AM
    You need to drift away from her or else tell her that her negativity is holding you and your relationship back from going anywhere.
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