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    Jun 17, 2013, 05:47 AM
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    Been with my boy friend for over a year. I get really jealous when he speaks to other girls.I am really insecure and worried he might like them more and leave me. He loves me very much and would do anything for me. And I love him more than I've ever loved anyone . He is really friendly with other people (one of the reasons I fell in love with him) how can I stop being so insecure . Please help
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    Jun 17, 2013, 06:34 AM
    Finding trust, since if you are really overly jealous, it will show and it will effect your relationship after a while, Men and women all have friends of the other sex, it is just part of life.
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    Jun 17, 2013, 07:56 AM
    How old are the two of you? You either trust this guy or you don't. It does not sound like he has given you any reason not to trust him. Are you typically a non trusting jealous person with everything or just him? Have you always been this way?
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    Jun 17, 2013, 12:04 PM
    We are both in our 40s, and yes I know I should be more mature. I was with my husband for 18 years . He died a few years ago .I think I feel like this because I don't think of myself as very attractive. I pretend to be OK but am very low in confidence
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    Jun 17, 2013, 12:20 PM
    Sorry for your loss. Is this the first man since the death of your husband? This man loves you, cares for you. You need to love yourself. Talk to a professional to help you deal with your esteem issues before you mess this up. Do this for you so you can be emotionally healthy.
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    Jun 17, 2013, 12:36 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/emotio...sy-751928.html

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    What do you hope to gain with multiple accounts but the same question?
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    Jun 17, 2013, 01:04 PM
    I think you are jealous because he cheated with you, This is how your relationship started. In one of your questions, you say you have never talked to him about this, you should. You two need to have a talk.
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