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gs8771567 · May 19, 2013, 11:28 PM

Hello All,I request you all Please tke this question very seriously and reply me thinking you very own problem.

I fell in love with a girl six year back from now. She remained by best friend for 4 years then became my girl friend. From last 2.5 years we are in relationship. I love her like hell. And she too loves me a lot.(there is no doubt in that)

She got a job and there she met a guy she said to me that "I like taking to that person can and I keep on thinking about him. If you permit can I talk to him, If I won't do that I will not be able to control that feeling and it will not be good.I said yes of course.

I talked to that guy he is very sensible and caring and good person.He is not going to do anything wrong. That person loves to talk to my girlfriend and my girlfriend also loves to talk to her and chat. My girlfriend said that she has strong feeling for him and if she will continue to talk to him their, relation will be going on in a friendly way otherwise it will create problems. I said me almost everything what they talk and every other thing.

I believe that is love and even the guy is in love with her but he will not admit it because there is no future, he cares for me too, and for her also. (he is a nice guy).

I read her messages in mobile so there were like some words which are used only for your boyfriend or in friend circle that too in jokes.(Babu, bete, etc).

She has lied me 2-3 times about some things.

Now please comment and suggest. What you have understand so far. Its very complicated to elobrate my mental condition and all the situations, I will reply to your answers. Please Please Suggest me as soon as possible.

Homegirl 50 · May 20, 2013, 04:40 PM

I suggest you leave her alone. If she is in love with you, she should not be talking to this guy, and if this guy was so nice, he would not be disrespecting you by talking to your girl.
You tell her she cannot have both of you, and leave. She does not respect you.

gs8771567 · May 20, 2013, 09:14 PM

Thanks for the reply!!

Actually I can't leave her... I can tell her that this is not going to work and u have to decide what do want? Also he has told the person about me. That she is going to marry me and he matters to me a lot.

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gs8771567 · May 20, 2013, 09:16 PM

That true...

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2013, 05:02 AM

Why have you been with this girl for so long, how old are you? This girl will not leave him alone because she knows she can have you both. This is your fault in that you just put up with it. She does not respect you, neither does he. You don't do this to people you care about and respect.

gs8771567 · May 21, 2013, 05:33 AM

I'm 24 n she is 22... this crap started 2 months, ago.. can you please suggest me how to get he in confidence that she is doing wrong. I can't leave her and same goes for her also... when I said to her once that your actually in love with him. She started crying and she also said that she will fell guilty. And when I read her messages she said that she is not feeling good and you don't want to live happy.

Please tell me how to explain her that this is wrong for us and our relationship.

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2013, 05:59 AM

Originally Posted by gs8771567

i m 24 n she is 22....this crap started 2 months, ago..can u plz suggest me how to get he in confidence that she is doing wrong. i can't leave her and same goes for her also.....when i said to her once that ur actually in love with him. she started crying and she also said that she will fell guilty. And when i read her messages she said that she is not feeling good and you don't want to live happy.

Please tell me how to explain her that this is wrong for us and our relationship.

You tell her that she cannot have it both ways. She either wants you are she wants him. I don't understand why you can't leave her but I would tell her I would not have anything else to do with her until she does. You need to stop allowing them to make a fool of you. Why can you not leave her?

gs8771567 · May 21, 2013, 07:09 AM

Coz m in love with her frm last 6 year, I can't imagine my life without her.and she also said to me mt nt at all going to leave u.bt I cnt cntrl myself rite nw.

Homegirl 50 · May 21, 2013, 07:35 AM

You need to get a clue. Stop letting this girl make a fool of you. She does not respect or love you, if she did, she would not be doing what she is doing. You need to leave her alone or stop complaining.