[priyad]

Hi my name is Priya. I am in a relationahip since 1 year with a 22 yrs old guy and I'm 20 yrs old. We both love each other deeply and want to get married in future. I'm in last year of graduation. His father know about our relation (his mother does not) still he is planning for his marriage this year. Could anyone please suggest me how to convince his parents? I'm really in trouble.

[smkanand]

His parents not agree? Your parents agree? Anyway, if you both love each other and he can give you good future prospect then both you should get married. Try to convince his parents that you belongs to same religion and culture. Things will not change after marriage and you will respect his family culture. And if they still they don't get convince, do civil marriage.

[priyad]

My parents do not know any thing about my relation ship. We both have decided to convince them later when we'll settle financially. But his father is in hurry for his marriage. I cnt tell my parents about my relation because I'm in graduation last year. And also we are nt of same caste. He is siuth indian and m brahmin.

[smkanand]

That's fine with your cast. I think he should convince his father to wait for few months. I think he can do this. Later you guys can go ahead.

[priyad]

Thanks for your suggestion...