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    JD96 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 3, 2013, 11:33 AM
    Girl likes me for a long time but has boyfriend
    Hi guys,

    So there is this girl who I (kinda) know since the first year of high school. I was 13 or 14 back then and I had a lot of girlfriends, no relationships just girl friends. I ended up dating 2 of them, anyway I always kind of liked this girl that I know since 1st year but I never really spoke with her a lot.

    Now a little while ago I met her at a party (we're 16 now) and we started talking. She wanted to get some food and dragged me all around the house and we talked :P Now I was a little "tipsy?" and she was still sober. So then she started talking about how she liked me too in the first year and she kept coming back on that.

    After the party I brought her home, asked her number and gave her a hug. So now we've been Whatsapping for a while but she told me she has a boyfriend but said stuff like " yeah too bad it's going kinda well between us" and "I'm sorry ! ".

    So now you know the situation a little bit better, here are my questions:

    1. I'm sure she is interested in me but she has a BF, how should I handle this? I've liked her for a while now so it's not like I don't have any right to be with her... After all she is the one who started flirting with me!

    2. I'm not sure how to show her I'm interested to and/or how to step up to her. Usually I would just flirt a little bit and then I'd man up and tell her and go on a date or something but she is in a relationship so it's a whole other story.

    Thanks for helping me out!

    - JD
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    Oliver2011 Posts: 2,606, Reputation: 746
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    Apr 3, 2013, 12:44 PM
    1. Stop Drinking at 16!

    2. Hands off - she is taken. Would you appreciate someone moving in on your girlfriend if you had one? You are in high school now - not middle school.

    3. Stop Drinking!

    4. Stop Drinking!
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    Apr 3, 2013, 02:36 PM
    You don't have a right to anybody.
    She has a boyfriend, leave her alone.
    Stop drinking. It's dumb!
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