[t-raw12]

She been very confused, she says she has so much pressure and doesn't know what she is doing with her life. Should I break up with her. I love her a lot but I can't stand to see her with someone else once we are friends. She also says she doesn't know what she wants anymore. I don't know what to do!! I just talked to her about that and she said, "I don't know what I want, I'm just living day by day". I'm scared what can I do!?

[LittleBlackKat]

This is just plain torture on both sides. If she doesn't know what she wants, then no offence, but she should not be getting into a relationship because she is only hurting herself and the other person in the end. She doesn't sound emotional and mentally stable.

Furthermore, it sounds to me like she is confusing you as well and making you nervous. Just cut off all contact with this person right now. No calls, no texts, nothing. Not a peep. This just spells trouble and can open up a can of new worms down the road if you "let her be friends". Make a choice, and make it quickly if you want the drama to stop.

All the best.

[fredg]

Your girlfriend is a very, very confused person. She really doesn't want a relationship with you now. I would move on. Be honest, respectful, Smile, and start meeting some other girls. This one just simply is not ready for a relationship, much less love. Good luck.

[talaniman]

Leave her completely alone, and none of that "friendship" nonsense. How old are you both?

[smkanand]

Give her a chance, stay apart for a while and let her decide what she want. After few days if she continues same line then leave her.