[kishor swet]

Hi,
I loved a girl from bangalore and am from vellore of tamilnadu.she is doing +1 and am just completed my studies recently and working now.I and her had a contact through phone only because of her friend,who loved my friend.First we both are like good friends and later we both came to know about of each others character,etc.After few months we started to love each other,I only proposed her.we both loved without seeing each other.after 3 months I went to see her.we both met and still we both deeply loved each other.our love matter came to known by her brother and so he warned me.later I speaked with him and convinced him too.we often meets,at least once a month and speaks in phone a lot.once I had reached a situation to speak with her mom,who works in garments.I went to her home and talked to her mom but she doernot accepted our love.we both tried to covince for our love but she not get convinced.in my home everybody will accept.I will say about my love at my family after one year.after I talked with her mom she texted me that she can't live without me in future,I too in the same situation.please suggest me what to do right now at this situation.

[Username_Chris]

If you know that you're a good guy and will treat your lover with respect then it doesn't matter what her mom thinks. Of course you want to have a good mother-in-law relationship but if she won't accept you then you shouldn't waste your time convincing her to like you. Do what you feel is best and what you think is naturally right.

What I think is just go with it. Be together and eventually mom will accept you. As long as you're a good man and know what you want in life. Two people shouldn't be torn apart from their love or lust because of other people. Just do it!

Good luck, you will need it.

[JudyKayTee]

You can either be with this girl, against her family's wishes, or end the relationship. Those are the only two choices at this point.

Why is her mother against the relationship?

[smkanand]

Hi, kishore, what is the real issue? Religion, cast, community, wealth, status etc. if you both belongs to same community then get married. Do civil wedding. Later tell your parents and I'm sure they will understand. If there's a issue of community etc. then you can still go ahead for the marriage. But think about all the issues before going ahead.