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    dontknownuthin Posts: 2,910, Reputation: 751
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    #21

    Jan 16, 2013, 03:03 PM
    This is not something to be mad about. He was satisfied - twice - already. He stayed in the game to satisfy you. Now you're mad at him. I agree with Judy - you're looking for reasons to pick a fight, probably want out of the relationship but need to make it his fault.
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    #22

    Jan 16, 2013, 03:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    This is not something to be mad about. He was satisfied - twice - already. He stayed in the game to satisfy you. Now you're mad at him. I agree with Judy - you're looking for reasons to pick a fight, probably want out of the relationship but need to make it his fault.

    [whisper]Pssstt- You must have missed it on page 2 where she said she apologized and then thanked everyone here for the advice...all the while admitting that she was wrong. Can you believe that?[/whisper]
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    #23

    Jan 16, 2013, 03:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    [whisper]Pssstt- You must have missed it on page 2 where she said she apologized and then thanked everyone here for the advice...all the while admitting that she was wrong. Can you believe that?[/whisper]
    Psstttt... you're right. Thanks for telling me quietly so nobody else noticed. I don't think anyone else noticed, right? Missed a whole page of posts somehow... must have been too fast on the click!
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    #24

    Jan 16, 2013, 03:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dontknownuthin View Post
    Psstttt....you're right. Thanks for telling me quietly so nobody else noticed. I don't think anyone else noticed, right? Missed a whole page of posts somehow...must have been too fast on the click!
    Didn't see anything. Nope.
    ...
    Oooo look! BUNNY
    ...
    Bunny, bunny, bunny...

    Er...

    Where was I?
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    #25

    Jan 16, 2013, 04:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by snwbunny View Post
    :-) trust i will be back for more advice!!
    Welcome to AMHD!

    You don't have to have a problem to come back. Check out the rest of the site and see if there are any subjects that interest you.

    By the way, I am glad that you are working things out with your boyfriend. Congratulations on passing this test of your relationship.
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    #26

    Jan 18, 2013, 09:06 PM
    I'm a guy... I'm curious how he faked it.

    It would take superhuman control to WILL an ejaculation. I can do a lot of things... I've never learned how to do that.
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    #27

    Jan 18, 2013, 11:41 PM
    Lol I'm really not sure he didn't even tell me. Till weeks later.. fooled me well haha
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I'm a guy....I'm curious how he faked it.

    It would take superhuman control to WILL an ejaculation. I can do a lot of things....I've never learned how to do that.
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    #28

    Jan 19, 2013, 05:16 AM
    I was thinking it - leave it to Smoothy to say it.
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    #29

    Jan 19, 2013, 07:25 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I'm a guy....I'm curious how he faked it.

    It would take superhuman control to WILL an ejaculation. I can do a lot of things....I've never learned how to do that.
    I assumed the faking occurred during intercourse where the lack of an ejaculation would not be noticeable.
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    Jan 19, 2013, 07:31 AM
    (I used to get mad at my now ex for pretending that he didn't have an orgasm in order to keep going for my sake... I had my reasons for that, which aren't relevant here... )
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    #31

    Jan 19, 2013, 12:09 PM
    Hmm - working on lack of ejaculate not being noticeable.

    Hmmm.
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    #32

    Jan 19, 2013, 12:33 PM
    A male can have an orgasm without ejaculating especially if they have already ejaculated multiple times before.

    In younger men, dry orgasm can occur after repeated orgasms. There is a temporary absence of semen, so little or nothing comes out of the penis. This is not a cause for alarm, and generally improves after a few hours of rest.
    Dry orgasm: Causes - MayoClinic.com

    This was the third time that night, I doubt more or less bodily fluids would be the last thing anyone would check on.

    Since this was about 'faking' an orgasm, I would guess he used facial expressions, vocalizations and shorter/jerkier motions to act like he climaxed. It really isn't a mystery. Why turn it into one?

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