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    Jan 18, 2013, 11:18 AM
    How should I convince my parents for love marriage.
    I am in a relationship for the last 10 years. His parent gave us a green light for our relationship, but my parents are not agreeing. His uncle is a common friend. He came 6 or 7 times and tried to explain to my parents, but no positive response from them.

    I have tried for the last 4 to 6 months but nothing is working. I have tried 100%. What should I do? Would it be right to register marriage against my parents wishes?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 11:39 AM
    If you have been in this relationship for TEN years, certainly you are an adult and old enough to make your own decisions about whom to marry. Yes?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 11:43 AM
    I want to marry only with him..
    I can't marry anyone else
    And you I have taken decision that I want to marry only with him
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    Jan 18, 2013, 11:45 AM
    Then marry him.
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    Jan 18, 2013, 11:56 AM
    Would it be right to marry against my parents?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 12:00 PM
    If you don't marry him, your parents will arrange a husband for you. OR, find a way to convince them to accept your boyfriend. Why don't they? Is it a caste difference?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 12:35 PM
    No there is no caste difference.. everythng is perfect.. the boy and his family background is also very good.. the boy is well settled

    My parents are not giving any reason for saying no.. they only think that doing love marriage is wrong..
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    Jan 18, 2013, 01:00 PM
    You may have to proceed without them as they may never agree for a love marriage. Hard to believe they have let his go on for 10 years though. They have met and talked with him have they NOT?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 09:56 PM
    Ya my father told my uncle to talk to him.. my uncle has met him personally..
    Dat means that if I marry him against my parents it won't b wrong na?
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    Jan 18, 2013, 10:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 9586786697 View Post
    Ya my father told my uncle to talk to him..my uncle has met him personally..
    Dat means tht if i marry him against my parents it wont b wrong na?
    Please do not text, or your posts will be removed.

    Why did your father want your uncle to talk with him?
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    Jan 19, 2013, 01:41 AM
    I forced my parents to meet my boyfriend.. they did not want to go so they told my uncle to meet him.. my parents even told that they are ready to meet my boyfriend's parents.. but then they did not go.. I am not understanding what they want.. sometimes they say yes sometimes no

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