[manifested88]

I'm a 24 year old female. I know I'm not the only girl out there in the world who can ONLY get off while being on top riding front to back. Its not like I haven't tried different positions either. Yes, sex feels good and I'm not one to reject it unless I'm feeling insanely sick.

But during sex I have only ever been able to get off while being on top. I have never really been about self pleasure, won't lie I have tried it a few times in the past several years but it doesn't do anything for me. I can't even get off from oral. I used a vibrator during sex once it definitely got the job done quicker than I am able to. But every time during sex I feel like I'm boring. It always ends the same way for me because that's the only way I can get off.

A female doctor recently told me to *self explore* a bit more and try out the vibrator more as well but then you hear about girls becoming dependent on them and then that's the only way THEY can get off now. The doctor got me thinking about maybe I just don't feel comfortable with my own body but wondering if anyone has had my problem before. What did they do and did it ever change for you?

And NO, its not the guys that don't know what they are doing and I'm friggin annoyed with a guy when I warn him about my *one and only position* because then he thinks he can do it better than the one before. I just think they are idiots when they say that. But weirdly enough when I'm in the shower, and the shower head isn't attached to the wall, the pressure of the water can make my knees buckle because the pressure is so intense and feels so amazing, but it becomes TOO intense I can feel it riding all the way through my body.

I have tried to see if it ever led to anything but it doesn't feel the same as when I get off during sex.

(sorry about the novel)

[talaniman]

You like what you like so what's the problem? No need to regret or feel guilty or weird, just hope you have an understanding partner. We all have a unique combinations of taste, styles, and preferences.

Just be careful that you are not so into sex, you neglect any connections that may allow you to be comfortable enough to not have to worry about the enjoyment, and render it meaningless.

[Alty]

The majority of women can't orgasm from penetration alone. You can. So I'd say you're pretty darn lucky.

I for one have never had an orgasm from only penetration. The only way I can orgasm during sex is if I self stimulate, or my husband does.it for me. But just sex alone will not bring me to orgasm, and that's the case for most women.

I think the problem nowadays is that too many young people watch porn and think that porn is real, that every guy can last for hours, and that every girl orgasms during sex. It's just not true.

So consider yourself lucky. You have the one position, most have none.

[Fr_Chuck]

You are actually lucky, many if not most women don't orgasm from sex itself, but will have to do it in fore or after play. So you are really lucky that you found a way to do it though regular sex at all.

[kellymariekitty]

Your lucky, Ive never had one.