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    Dec 31, 2012, 02:06 AM
    How do I get my boyfriend to kiss me around other people when we are both extremely shy?
    me and my boyfriend, zachaus, have been dating for 3 weeks now and we haven't kissed yet. We are both extremely shy and we only see each other at school and we are both 13 years old. What should I do?! (:
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    Dec 31, 2012, 02:08 AM
    Why all the rush..
    Slow down and take things naturally.
    Forcing the matter will NOT help this crush at all..
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    Dec 31, 2012, 02:33 AM
    No reason 13 year olds should even be kissing, Sorry this is still too young
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    Dec 31, 2012, 05:34 AM
    You haven't kissed yet and you want him to kiss you around other people? I don't get it.
    Also - a little bit of advise for your whole life: you don't 'get people to do something.'
    That thinking is the basis for manipulation and control, and will result in nothing but disappointment.
    Relationships are about a delicate balance of feeling each other out, being who you are and accepting who the other person is, expressing your wishes and hopes - and if not met, you find someone else.
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    Dec 31, 2012, 06:55 AM
    At 13 you are too young to be kissing let alone having a boyfriend.

    While you think you may be mature for your age, we hear that all the time, your still not able to maturely understand the seriousness of how this affects a relationship. Be friends for now. You have many years ahead for kissing.
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