[ej123oliveras]

My girlfirend used to be extremely sexually active with her ex husband. He never wanted sex but she was always all over him and masturbating all the time. She got divorced and met me. I'm 21 and a sex addict she's 25. At first she was all over me but I wasn't that active then I got used to her and was comfortable. Now I'm the one who wants it all the time.

When I start she never reacts to it. I've been romantic and even tried doing what she likes. I don't know if its me or what's wrong? When I ask her she says she doesn't know why she's never horny or as horny as she was. She talks about how it was with her ex who treated ger badly but with me I treat her right and she loves me but never is horny. He never lasted long or was interested but I am.

Why is this happening and How can I fix this because I can't take it much longer?

[Fr_Chuck]

What do you mean you can't take it any longer ?

Not much talk of love and understand, more talk of sexual desires and wants.

So how often do you want it, every day, three times a week ?

But sounds like it was the other way around when you meet, and perhaps her hormones are changing, or her ideas of LOVE vs SEX is changing.

Time to discuss, talk about it, get counseling if needed. You BOTH may need to work out a plan

[talaniman]

Your fix is through understanding through communications to work out and adjust to the changes that must be made for the relationship, NOT just the sex. If that's all you want, what an ex of hers once had, then you are barking up the wrong tree.

You are only a sex addict if you want ro be which is a perfectly ridicules thing to aspire too. You probably are missing something more important you need to know, worrying so much about sex and the past.