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    Dec 23, 2012, 01:17 AM
    My friend hates me.
    I found my friend's tumblr and I followed her. She got really mad at me because she posts personal stuff on it. I've unfollowed her now, but she's still mad at me. She made a post on tumblr saying that she has blocked me from anything that would link me to her (tumblr, Facebook, probably email as well). I really want to let her know how sorry I am and that I didn't see anything personal, but since she's blocked me from every form of communication I can't (she doesn't have a cell phone and I don't have her home phone number either.) I really want to be friends with her again please help!
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    Dec 23, 2012, 01:36 AM
    Your friend isn't very bright, is she? If she doesn't want people to know her personal stuff then why did she post it on her tumblr? It doesn't make any sense at all. I'm glad she blocked you from all forms of communiction, now that you're away from brainless there, you can find some smart friends or at least average-IQ people. I may sound like a jerk I'll admit, but c'mon..

    Good luck and stay away from her!
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    Dec 23, 2012, 02:06 AM
    That was the least helpful thing ever. She's a really good friend of mine I don't want to lose her :(
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    Dec 23, 2012, 02:12 AM
    She doesn't sound like a good 'friend'. A friend wouldn't block all communications with someone who viewed their personal info that they allowed in the first place for other people to see, would they? It's just plain stupid. Sorry, but find some better people than her.. she's ridiculous.
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    Dec 23, 2012, 02:13 AM
    Send her an old fashioned letter of apology, and a card, and some flowers. Or take them all to her door and just hand them to her with a smile and 'I miss you' and walk away.

    I don't know tumblr so have no clue what it means to post on it expecting privacy.
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    Dec 23, 2012, 02:16 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by rweb7 View Post
    She doesn't sound like a good 'friend'. A friend wouldn't block all communications with someone who viewed their personal info that they allowed in the first place for other people to see, would they? It's just plain stupid. Sorry, but find some better people than her.. she's ridiculous.
    I should have elaborated a bit more. She thinks I've seen all sorts of her private stuff, but I really haven't. She thinks that my opinion of her has changed completely, but again, it hasn't. I don't know if that puts a new spin on things. I suppose I should have mentioned it
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    Dec 23, 2012, 02:58 AM
    If she posts things online, she is a silly fool for being mad at you for following her,

    She should be the one to tell you she is sorry for being foolish. But if you want to make up with her, go see her in person and tell her.
    But she should also read this question, since she is the one really in the wrong.
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    Dec 23, 2012, 03:27 AM
    I agree that she sounds silly, but you asked about getting her friendship back, so that's all that matters.
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    Dec 28, 2012, 10:45 AM
    I agree that going to her house and talking with her is a good start - you mentioned you don't have her house phone number - if you know her last name (which you should if she's such a good friend) look her up in the phone book. Old fashioned, I know, but it might work.
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    Dec 28, 2012, 02:45 PM
    Thanks for all the help guys. We're on good terms again

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