[ayush779]

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I am a 19 year old guy. I have a girlfriend. Once we were alone at home and we started having a kiss and all. I imitated to her how sex is done with our clothes ON. Now after that session she became skeptical if she would become pregnant. I know it's impossible. But please do tell me if it can happen at all or not. It was just an imitation with her sitting on my laps and me pressing against her hips. Please do help and tell me if she could by any means have become pregnant?

[Curlyben]

More chance of me becoming Pope of MARS!!

[Fr_Chuck]

19 and don't know about pregnancy ? Don't need to be even talking about it, till you learn what it is

[ayush779]

I actually do know what all it is. But can't help my girlfriend understand it...
Just tell if it's a yes or no.. Because for me it's a big NO

[J_9]

No. It's impossible in your situation.

[odinn7]

How old is she?

[ayush779]

She is 18yrs old but highly skeptical. Despite of knwing the complete facts about sex.

Thanks a lot...

[J_9]

Sperm cannot penetrate through clothing. Apparently your girlfriend knows less about sex and pregnancy than she is telling you.

[ayush779]

I have been in a relationship fr 1 year. I am 19. I want to ask what is exceeding in a relationship? When is the tym to halt?

[Wondergirl]

Exceeding in what? Kissing? Sex? Touching? Saying "I love you"?

[odinn7]

I confuse

[LightCross]

We can't answer a questions that are not specific, try to narrow down your question please.

[ayush779]

Exceeding in what? kissing? sex? touching? saying "I love you"?

I mean to say in being physical I.e kissing,touching. Whn z it said that the limits have been crossd? Does sex mean its height??

[LightCross]

The limits depend on the time you both spent together and your partner's character, there is not a fixed limit really. The longer you spent time with your partner the more open you and your partner will be. Some people willing to do kiss or even sex at first week in their relationship while some don't , I would say get to understand your partner better to know the limit

[ayush779]

bt she has alllowed me to do anythng with her... she says her body z mine. I don't want to take any advntage ata ll... what to do??

[Wondergirl]

Is virginity important in your country when a woman gets married?

[ayush779]

yes it z desired

[Wondergirl]

Then to avoid excess, do not touch her underneath her clothing or so closely over her clothing that you lose your good sense and decide to make love to her. If you have sex with her, she will become worthless in your culture. Many women have been killed by their families because of the shame that their daughter is no longer a virgin. (If the world was fair, the male who took her virginity should be killed too then... )

[talaniman]

Excess in a relationship should be avoided by not doing anything to compromise either of your dignity and self respect, or bring shame or guilt. That means a lot of talking before you do ANYTHING.

Its just to easy for lust, strong feelings and curiosity to lead you into things you know little about or have NO experience with. Get the facts as well as the feelings before you act. Dry humping (imitating sex is not love, but lust, and no, you can't get her pregnant) can bring about many urges and feelings and the need to explore. So can kissing and touching.

You both could stand to learn as you explore and experiment, and set some boundaries of good safe behavior and actions for yourselves.

[ayush779]

Thanks a lot to all.. that was very helpful of u all.