[June_2012]

You probably meant to say something derogatory, but it got lost in the lack of grammar and punctuation. What a shame!

Actually they block out curse words aren't you so smart

[June_2012]

Mods, I think it's time to close this thread. the OP's question has been answered, was answered the very first post and then some, and nothing she adds, if we can decipher it, will change the answer. She's been given the facts ad nauseum, and now it's up to her to accept them.

Thank you I do appreciate your answers! Sorry for the name calling..

[Alty]

Thank you I do appreciate your answers! Sorry for the name calling ..

Name calling doesn't hurt. Really, I only get insulted by people I know and respect, so no worries.

It is frustrating to tell someone the facts, and have them not accept it. I do understand that what I told you, isn't what you wanted to hear. But that doesn't change the facts, or the law.

Do get your boyfriend to go to court. If being a part of this child's life is what he wants, then he has to go to court. He has rights as her father. But, the child also has rights, and that's something he's going to have to accept. If he won't fight for his rights to see her and be a part of her life, that doesn't change his responsibility to support the child. If the mother is not a good parent, then going to court is his only option. If he can prove that she's unfit he could get sole custody, and then she has to pay child support. But proving that a parent is unfit isn't as easy as people think.

Good luck, and I do mean that.

[ScottGem]

Actually they block out curse words aren't you so smart

That's right, we do. The smart one is someone who realizes this and keeps a civil tongue.

Thread closed.