[Lizzramy]

Hi my name is Liz ,

I have been married for 4 years. My husband has repeatedly told me that he would change with his behaviors towards other woman. Till today he struggles with it. He's very Overfriendly with woman, till the point that even when he tries not to be he still ends up. One thing that bothers him is when someone does not like him, he wants to be liked. So even if it means for him to flirt or be Overfriendly with woman Till the point that they end up liking him and wanting to be with him, he just ends up enjoying it and repeatedly doing it.


Another thing is that he plays too much verbally with other women and likes to be charming and act smart out of his mouth with them. Which causes them to play back and forth with him and ends up flirting with each other. He is 26 and yes its fine being outgoing and friendly but to an extent not to go overboard. He even protects women's feeling against mine. If a woman acts nasty out of her mouth with me and she looks good in his eyes he would turn his back on me and make sure the other woman is OK . But when I speak to man or become really good friends with a man that's not him he wants to get jealous. All I ask is why and what should I do? These things lead to arguments and him beating on me.

[J_9]

He beats you? Is abuse common in your culture?