[nick85478]

My Fiancé and I have been together for 3 almost 4 years and have a 15 month old son. I go to school 5 days a week full time. I watch our son most of the time throughout the week and do a lot of the cleaning so she isn't so tired. I try as much as I can to help out.

She works about 35 hours a week. For the last 4 months she has been saying she is too tired for sex. She never wants to have sex and when we do anything sexual it's like a job for her. I told her how I feel and said I want/need more sex. She want to be together forever and loves me, so she says lol jk.

I just get mad when I think of another day of no sex and I need advice on what to do!!

p.s.
Please help my little guys :(

[CravenMorhead]

You see I was all on your side before that "Please help my little guys" comment.

Masturbate.

Have you talked to or asked your fiancé why she doesn't want sex? Could she be tired. Libido killer. Maybe annoyed by your constant advances to help out your little boys? Talk to her and find out. Might be something as simple as exhaustion but could be worse.

[Wondergirl]

Hire a babysitter you trust and take her away for the weekend or even just overnight or for part of a day. And don't expect her to pay you back with sex. Don't even expect it. Think of ways to make the time away just fun -- walking in a forest preserve, going to an amusement park, even just eating at McDonald's or Arby's. Oh, and your library has lists of fun FREE things to do in your area.

[GuardianofTime]

Seeker,

I would not advise watching porn that will kill your relationship if you start. You will come to depend on it.

I would however advise that you begin to watch your wife or girlfriend more closely. She may be tired of the relationship. Working is never an excuse. Something is else is at the heart of this issue. I can sense it.

Word to the Wise
Walk as gently as a lamb, but be wise as a fox

Guardian