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    Nov 11, 2012, 07:29 PM
    Is it possible to be in love with someone and love someone else?
    I've been in a strong relationship with this guy for 2 years. Then I find out on my birthday he also has another girl. I talk to her and she says she's been dating him for 3-4 months now and she had no clue.

    I ask him what he is doing with us and he tells me he is in love with me but he loves her. He told me I'm the love of his life, and I ask her did he say the same thing and it was exactly the same. How can someone be in love and love someone else.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 07:32 PM
    He sounds like a player who is telling you both what you want to hear.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 07:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Enigma1999 View Post
    He sounds like a player who is telling you both what you want to hear.
    Thank you,I had a feeling. I guess it's best to just move on no matter how much of the pain.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 07:46 PM
    He may not be in love with either of you. He is feeding you both a line. I hope you're not still with him.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 08:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MakepeaceNOTwar View Post
    thank you,I had a feeling. I guess it's best to just move on no matter how much of the pain.
    Yes, as hard as it might be, I would just move on. Same goes for the other girl. You BOTH can do better than this guy.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 09:43 PM
    We humans can love many, but don't have to lie and cheat about it. Dump the lying cheater.
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    Nov 12, 2012, 09:05 AM
    It is possible to love more than one person. It is also possible to be a player and have your cake and eat it too. Most people could not stand to be an "also" in a relationship. However more importantly he is lying to you. I wouldn't tolerate dishonesty because the dishonesty will only grow and grow.

    I don't get people that can have an open relationship. The thought of someone else touching the person I love would drive me insane.
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