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    Sep 1, 2012, 04:06 AM
    My friend needs space?
    Hi, I need help, my friend marry now, and was in love with me and he still want be my friend. But I send many messages but he not answer ignored me totally. Before 7 days he send to me a girl that he want be friend and when he is ready he will let me know. I hope you can give me best advice Because that hurt me.

    When we were close friend but not now, and he has another best friend to talk with each other about everything and I feel bad.
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    Sep 1, 2012, 04:32 AM
    I'm very sorry that you lost your friend, but that is life and it happens to all of us. Maybe he was too attached to you emotionally and now that he's married he doesn't feel that he can stay friends without feeling pain, so he had to ignore you completely.
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    Sep 1, 2012, 05:30 AM
    He still want me as friend but he ignore my messages and the girl told me to give him some space and when he is ready he will let me know
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    Sep 1, 2012, 07:22 AM
    Aw, don't be sad. You both need space to adjust to his new romance. We often feel left behind when a friend has other things to take their attentions away from us. He would have felt as you do, sad, if it where you that had found a romantic partner as you wouldn't have the same amount of time to be his friend.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 04:55 AM
    He cant call me ?
    I have a friend there was emotion toward him to me, I send message to him but he not response and if he response he said we will chat , but then he go away and he said I am thinking in you but he told me his life change he is marry now busy but I am surprised that he can't find anytime to call me what I can do ?
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    Oct 10, 2012, 05:42 AM
    You don't do anything. He is married and this means he is off limits to you.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 06:19 AM
    I know that but we are best friend and he is talk to another friends and ignore me that is hard
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    Oct 10, 2012, 06:22 AM
    Because there was "emotion" between the two of you, he has chosen his wife. Leave him alone and get on with your life.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 07:57 AM
    Although we were best friend , that is hard when u have someone share everything with u then away that is not easy way
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    Oct 10, 2012, 07:58 AM
    No, it's not easy, but that's the way it has to be. You need to move on now and get a life separate from him.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 08:07 AM
    Yes it is not easy , I am changing his life for better he join his education because of me and have job and passion in everything then just away from me :(
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    Oct 10, 2012, 11:26 PM
    You go away, doing anything now will change his life for the worst, cause trouble with his wife.

    You have to accept this,
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    Oct 11, 2012, 12:02 AM
    I understand yr feelings which I have also facing. But I also could'nt take any dcision . I also never want breakup with my friend. But now he ignore me as well also unfrien me from FB.

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