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    Oct 8, 2012, 04:59 PM
    We kiss, but don't go out!
    We've been seeing each other for about a month now and we spend time together and with his friends. We hold hands and kiss. I'm not sure if he's really into me or if I'm just a side girl or a FWB. I want more than a friendship with him. What should I do?
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    Oct 8, 2012, 05:04 PM
    If you're having sex with him, stop. I certainly would not be having sex with someone who will not even take me out. Ask him what the relationship is to him.
    How old are you?
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    Oct 8, 2012, 05:04 PM
    Ask him these questions and you will get the answer straight from him, but be prepared to tell him what you want, too.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 04:41 PM
    Nope were not having sex, but I'm 18(:

    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Ask him these questions and you will get the answer straight from him, but be prepared to tell him what you want, too.
    What should I ask him? I don't want to sound desperate.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 05:06 PM
    Well the only way you can know something is to ask. Or just stop being so available to him, Let him make a move and his intentions known.
    Tell him you'd like to go out sometime.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 05:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by itsmea View Post
    What should I ask him? i dont want to sound desperate.
    Ask him where the relationship is going. You can also ask him if he is interested in you in the same way you are interested in him. You will need to explain to him how you feel the relationship should go.
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    Oct 10, 2012, 10:44 PM
    Ask him, or tell him when are we going out ? Or stop kissing him, till you start actually going out.
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    Oct 11, 2012, 05:26 AM
    Hello. You can be initiator.Good luck.
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