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    Sep 29, 2012, 04:37 PM
    My ex left me after six years and three kids, and he's already dating someone.
    So I broke up with my boyfriend of six years because I was pregnant for the fourth time and he didn't want it. I didn't know I was having an abnormal pregnancy so I miscarried when I was seven weeks. I wanted to get back with him but he told me he needed some space beacause he was hurt since me and the kids left him.

    The day that I had miscarried he met someone that night and they hooked up. The worst part is that she is married and her husband is about to come back from out of town but he is so into her that they already are talking if they should fall for each other.

    So he still tells me he loves me and says that maybe later in a couple of months we could get back together. When I think about it makes me so mad because he hardly spends time with the kids but when I see him I have all these strong feelings for him.

    Should I just move on and let him jump into his new relationship so that he can see for himself that it wasn't worth it? Or should I fight for our family to stay together?
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    Sep 29, 2012, 06:59 PM
    Oh man, I don't think you have much choice but to let him screw up all on his own. This may be the opportunity to think of how you proceed on your own, and how you get child support.

    You may need a break and space more than he does.
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    Oct 1, 2012, 02:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Oh man, I don't think you have much choice but to let him screw up all on his own. This may be the opportunity to think of how you proceed on your own, and how you get child support.

    You may need a break and space more than he does.
    Thanks Taliniman..
    Ur right we both need breaks. Just yesterday we got together with the kids and were talking about getting back together only to find out today that the day before he was with the same girl again. He erased her messages but I was still able to see the before he deleted them and to me it was like a double slap in the face :(

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