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moggy · Mar 17, 2007, 07:19 AM

I left my husband 2 years ago we had only been married 18 months - I had gone through 4 years of alcholism and when we married I thought everything would be okay, but my husband was still going through the adjustment faze and was going to a lot of meetings and other avenues to try to deal with this... I felt unattractive and unloved and so I left - He pursued me for a while but when he realised I wasn't coming back he stopped although we were in regular phone contact (about every week to two weeks).

I then didn't hear from him for about three weeks and then he rang to give me his number as his phone was broken - then a week later he sent a mass text to all friends to tell them his new number - I gave him a call and he as talking funny - He then told me he was living with someone else.

I went nuts crying and carrying on - this was over a month and half ago - we have now signed the divorce papers and when I told him I didn't want to send them he said he doesn't want false hope.

I told him I was dating someone at our last conversation and he asked all manner of questions about this new man and it makes me feel like there is some hope. I love him and want him back.

What should I do?

Fr_Chuck · Mar 17, 2007, 07:32 AM

Move on with your life, it appears he has ( he is living with someone else already)

He was polite and showed an interest and you are making this into a lot more than it should be.

It appears you have not moved on in your life after all this time

s_cianci · Mar 18, 2007, 07:09 PM

Ultimately that's a decision you have to make for yourself. It does sound like he still wants you back. You may want to talk with him face-to-face and ask him how he honestly feels and let that be your guide as to what you decide.

vlee · Mar 18, 2007, 09:17 PM

I think you should move forward. It sounds like you were in different places in your lives when you married, and you haven't been able to give one another the kind of love and support that it takes to form a healthy marriage. Let him go, let him move on, and you do the same. If you were deeply in love, or deeply committed to one another you'd have been fighting for your marriage. No matter what you choose to do, I wish you both happiness.