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    Fukyomama Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:27 AM
    Girlfriend broke up with me but still loves me?
    My girlfriend of 4 months just broke up with me a few hours ago. She has never really had a proper relationship and never really had real feelings for a guy, until she met me (we are both 17). She has told me numerous times that I'm so different to most guys she's gotten close with, hence the fact that she is/was actually in a relationship with me.

    A few weeks ago she told me she was starting to lose feelings for me, then a few days later she came over and her feelings rekindled. Now she says it again, and that as much as she tries to brush it off, she's losing feelings for me. She says she isn't a relationship kind of girl, and that she'd rather be single...

    Although she claims I proved to her that not all guys are the same and that I'm something special to her, which must be true as she willingly lost her virginity to me. What I don't get is how we could have sex numerous times then a week later she loses feelings, and ends it with me. Isn't sex/virginity a big thing for a girl? Especially at 17? She must have feelings for me, unless something sparked her to change her mind in the past week.

    She says she wants space, at first I whined and begged and sooked, then eventually gave in and stopped talking to her. She means so much to me, I know I sound naïve considering my age, but I really do love her. I know I shouldn't be waiting around like a puppy dog, but I have too much feelings for her to even consider trying to get over her. What should I do?
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:48 AM
    You should stop being her yo-yo and grow a spine. Give your heart time to heal until the girl of your dreams who won't play games with you enters your life. And she will.
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:49 AM
    Sex changes though whole dynamics of a relationship, especially at your age. Just accept that things weren't mean to be and move on. Continue the no contact, it will make moving on a lot easier.
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    Sep 13, 2012, 07:44 PM
    Give yourself time guy, and keep leaving her alone and do what you did before you got with her. Don't let the loss get you down, rise above it.

    Be glad she chose you to lose her virgimity too, and keep on going with your own life. Her lust faded. Yours has not. It will.

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